Back to work nerves Started by: Kirsty

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  • Kirsty 37
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    August 6, 2017 at 8:00 pm
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    So tomorrow is my first day back at work after my BA after having 400cc UHP on the 27th July. I work in a large office but luckily there isn’t a dress code so we can wear pretty much what we want, but I’m still nervous about going back, especially as my boobs were so small before and they’re now considerably bigger… did anyone else feel like this? Anyone have any tips?!

    Kelly Wild 43
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    August 6, 2017 at 8:52 pm
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    I’m sure I’ll be like this in September. I work in a Catholic Primary school so I’m nervous someone will notice. Good Luck hun. I’m sure nobody will even notice unless you put them on parade xxx

    Helen 29
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    August 6, 2017 at 9:08 pm
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    I know just how you are feeling, I started back at work with loose tops and gradually wore tops that showed my shape. But my work colleagues had to be aware that I had a BA due to the nature of my job, I had found out that while I was off some of them were referring to me as Dolly Parton this really upset, it was such a big thing for me to have my boobs done, I didn’t want anyone to see them at work by the end of two weeks no one said anything or paid any attention. It wasn’t as bad going back into work as I believed it would be I wished I hadn’t worried as much as I did. Good look let us know how you get on, hold your head high xx

    Kirsty 37
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    August 6, 2017 at 9:29 pm
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    I think I just get myself worked up half the time! Luckily for me, I’m a desk dweller so it’s not essential for anyone at my work to know what I did in my annual leave, and I guess if any one asks about it, it came out of my own money and my boobs never really grew so I had to buy them :’) as if people would say that about you though Helen.. jealousy coz you were able to go out and get what you want! X

    Anonymous
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    August 7, 2017 at 9:21 am
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    I think when people find out there is always a mixture of reactions, but if you decide not to tell anyone then I’m sure no one would say anything! I know if I thought it about someone I would not confront them as its none of anyone else’s business!
    I told a few people and there was a mixture of reactions from jealousy to wow they look amazing!
    Whatever you decide to do, don’t think about what others think of you, all that matters is what you think of yourself xxx

    Kirsty 37
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    August 7, 2017 at 5:03 pm
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    First day back and I survived, my top choice today did hide them quite well though. Only my female mate at work (who knew about the op) stared at them when I was talking to her haha

    Mae 79
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    August 7, 2017 at 7:39 pm
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    I’m really worried about this too! I work in a warehouse with lots of geeky men and don’t feel comfortable with them knowing.
    My op is the 5th September I’m planning on having two weeks off work. But will need to be put on light duties after, just don’t know how to go about doing this.
    Would a gp give a sick note saying about light duties? Or would I need to tell my boss 🙁

    Helen 29
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    August 8, 2017 at 4:51 am
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    Glad to here work went ok for you it is nerve racking you done now walk through the door, my female friends keep looking down instead of at me, my male friends haven’t been as bad haha xx

    @mae14     My surgeon gave me a sick note for two weeks off then to return to light duties , if you need and time off after the two weeks then you can get a sick note off your gp. My daughter started wearing push up bras that made her look a lot bigger building up to her op. Xx

    Mae 79
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    August 8, 2017 at 7:36 am
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    Thanks Helen. I have my pre op next week so will ask about it then! I will have two weeks off already for holiday so will just have to see what I can do after that! Xx

    Helen 29
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    August 8, 2017 at 1:29 pm
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    @mae14 I got told that I had to book my op off as annual leave as it was elective surgery, I rang the HR department and they said that the day of my op it has to be day off or annual leave after I am deemed unfit to work so will be entitled to sick pay. They are now rewriting there policy to state elective surgery has to be taken as annual leave. If I had listen to my manager I would have had to use my leave glad I checked it out. Might be worth checking xx

    Claire 59
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    August 8, 2017 at 4:06 pm
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    I just used my holiday to safe any issues, I’m but in on Thursday, should be fun I’ve not told a sole and I work in a convent.
    Fun time to be had I thinks lol. Xx

    Mae 79
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    August 8, 2017 at 4:10 pm
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    Thanks for you replies! This job doesn’t really have a HR department to check! lol soooo I’ll just have to try and get a sick note after I return from my annual leave. Should be off for about 3 weeks! Xx

    Steph 18
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    August 8, 2017 at 5:08 pm
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    I go back to work tomorrow and I’m so nervous about it too. I have mixed emotions as I have only told people that I work directly with I haven’t mentioned it to the receptionists and the other members of staff. I only told my supervisor and the manager of the company that I was having cosmetic surgery I didn’t want to say what I was having I don’t have a great relationship with them but I’m sure other members will have told them what I was having x

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