Split from my Boyfriend, do I continue with the BA? Started by: Katie

@katie hi hun hope your ok first dont let all this stress you if i was u i woulf definatly go a head with ba dint let ur ex ruin this for you you can claim childtax and income supoort ring them asap so u can start getting paid pls do yhat today!!!u could ask yoyr lical council for a b and b because u have tge little one they cant refuse u if u havd no where to go or as much as u dont want to ur mum and dad coukd help you out also they can be there with recovery process ect but dont cancel your ba ur rrgret it in a month wen u want to go out with ya mates and wear nice cliths its going to boost your confidence think ling term thered a way out of everything i promise ur be ok just think whats best for you abd liitle one xx

I’m so sorry this has happened hun 🙁 first things first I would sort out your finance and look at places to live. It might not be a bad idea to stay with your parents initially if you do go ahead with the BA on the basis that it would be a short term thing to help you recover. It would also give you a bit more time to sort a place to live out. I don’t know what you current situation is financially and with work etc but definitely look into if you can claim anything to support yourself and your daughter. There are usually lots on online calculators that can help you get idea of what you can get straight away so you can start budgeting .. if the numbers add up then I would still go for it! But it’s your decision at the end of the day hun, you know how much this means to you and you also know what you can afford and if you feel like you’d be more comfortable postponing then I’m sure that could be arranged. I hope you get sorted soon lovely xxx

@katiep369 sounds like a good idea hun. At least then youll me in a better position to move and Can look for somewhere you love! Boys are stupid! Don’t stress yourself hun xxx

So sorry to hear this! Ur first priority obviously is a roof over u and ur daughters head. As bad as it may be with ur parents before things may have changed for the better and considering the circumstances they may be super supportive.

As you said, properties get snatched up really quick where u live it would be a positive to at least have ur parents place as a base which will be temporary. It would give u a chance to put some money aside and find somewhere u actually like and ticks more boxes than just a haste move.

Moving house is stressful enough! I’d also contact ur pc and see if they can postpone it to a later date if u really can’t go ahead as yet but the issue there maybe that pushing the date back could bring it closer to ur moving date. Moving house while recovering from a ba is a defo no go area too!

All the best on ur decision. The most important thing is u and ur daughter are happy.

Oh thts excellent news hun! So happy to hear that! Weight off ur shoulders now for sure. Just take each day as it comes hun. If u have been offered or suggested an uplift find out exactly what type they were thinking of six months sounds really soon after ur ba.
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Aww glad your doing ok 🙂 I split with my husband nearly 4 years ago now and got divorced we have 2 children but after a year I met my now partner who is amazing and fab with my children too. I would keep the op it will give you something to look forward to and take your mind off other things as long as you can comfortably afford it 🙂 ️xx