Boyfriend :( Started by: Mae

Ignore him hun my partner was dead against it, didnt help me in any way afterwards looking after the kids etc, he didnt even look at them for 3 days. He kept sayin i still dont get why u did it when u knew i didnt want u too… it was for me an i dont care what he thinks i paid for them an its my body if id asked him to pay then id understand but not a single penny was his money it was mine lol so he doesnt get a say… anyway now hes got used to em he cant keep his hands or eyes off lol but definitely insecurity because he randomly said yesterday that hes dreading next summer already thinking im going to be flaunting them an says il be getting attention. Im sure your partner will come round xx

Aww what a twat hun…..my partner has been real good to be fair wich has shocked me as he can be really quite shitty when he wants to be, when I first told him how much I wanted a ba about 3 years ago he laughed it off always said be happy with what I had he didn’t belive in operations for something that didn’t need to be done….all that jazz, but when he released I was going to save myself and how much it mentions to me he slowly come round to the idea…he still tried putting me off every now and then saying we couldn’t afford it but I just didn’t shut up about it and didn’t give in to him.but he has took me to every appointment and looked after me all the way through it as any partner should……you have had it done now hunni and he should be supporting you and making you feel good about yourself the only reason he isn’t is because he must be scared of the extra attention you might receive and your new confidence….but that’s no excuse to act like he is…..looking at pictures of your old boobies and saying he liked them better is just his way of making you second guess your own feelings about your new boobies…..he hasn’t give them chance to even settle yet…..hope you have told him he is upsetting you hunni it’s already a very emotional and stressful time for you xxx

@mae that’s it exactly it doesn’t change who we are if anything it give us that bit of confidence we should of always had but didn’t due to our tiny boobies ???? he will come round in the end he just needs to stop saying silly things when what you need is support xx

Im in same boat hun, my husband keeps telling me he isnt into fake but he can sod right off… iv given him kids nd its now my turn to get my body back… 100% its about us, not them ????

I think it’s an insecurity thing, they think we’ve got new boobs and all we are going to do is flaunt then off.
My husband has supported me all the way – he knows this is something that’s been on my mind for year, however in the days running up to me having it done he’d say things like ‘best make the most of these’ etc
I had them done Monday and he’s obsessed with them already ha! Although he’s said a few times ‘you’re not going to run off and leave me now are you’
I think once they realise that we’ve had them done for us alone and no one else the world will be a better place! 🙂

There’s no need for him to be nasty saying daft things….wait till they have settled and he’s all over you and telling you your boobies look amazing….then you can remind him that he didn’t like them and made you feel shit about yourself when you needed his support ????xx

Don’t know why it puts ??? When I put an emoji xx

Mine said same things, bullet nips…and he hope my surgery goes wrong etc etc constant!!! Awful they do that to us …. dunno why we allow ourselves to be treated in this way 🙁 xx

I know! This forum has been a massive help… nice to check other people’s recovery and progress!
Same as my partner (well ex now) he was very insecure before when I went out so figured he would be 100 times worse now. Don’t let him put you down because he has no right! Your partner should be supportive and should understand that it’s something you want to do for yourself and not anyone else!
I won’t be getting back with him that’s for sure… I hadn’t told my daughter I was having it done and he felt the need to announce it to her and say that I should be using the money to take her on holiday to Disney land… I was so angry especially because I had said I wasn’t going to mention it to her (just to mention he is not my daughters father).
I’m so happy I finally made the decision to do it and I’m glad he is no longer around to make
Me feel bad about it xx

Just see how it goes hun! He may accept it soon enough! My daughter is 9.. I didn’t want her to worry so my plan was to discuss it with her myself at some point.
I’m 11DPO and I can’t wait for that either… mine are still covered in strapping which comes off Tuesday… can’t wait to finally see them! Xx

Yep! I was in spire, consultant there leaves the strapping on for 2 weeks… I had to cut the top part of mine off because it was so high you could see it with my tops on. Literally on count down until Tuesday! Xx

@becky well said hunni xx