How to decide??? Started by: Clara

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  • Clara 8
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    September 26, 2017 at 5:04 pm
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    Hi girls!

    So I’m just wondering how you all came to the decision to 100% go through with the surgery?

    I feel so torn, I do want to go ahead as it’s always been on my mind since school.. trouble is I feel guilty using money me and fiancé have both saved up over the years, even though technically I have enough which is “mine” I just feel super selfish. Other half says it’s fine but I know really he would rather buy a 2nd house. I’m also worried about getting no sleep, possibly having to have surgery in the future and nasty comments off people who are against the procedure.

    Anyone else ever felt the same? Xx

    Jenna 2
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    September 26, 2017 at 5:09 pm
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    Hello
    I am in the same boat, though we have our house I have two young children and keep thinking I could just spoil then Rotten with he cash (not like they are already mind). Feel guilty that my partner works his butt off to pay the bills and mortgage and I’m getting a loan for myself! I’ve finally decided to have it done though as it’s always going to bother me and my partner says i nver buy anything for myself it’s all been about the kids for the last 5 years . I think if it’s going to change you for the petter and give you more confidence why not 🙂
    X

    Clara 8
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    September 26, 2017 at 5:19 pm
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    Glad I’m not alone! It’s great we have such supportive partners ???? I’m just such an over thinker!!

    How far along with the process are you? X

    Jenna 2
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    September 26, 2017 at 5:22 pm
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    I know he’s great, I’ve been thinking about it for well over a year and half and thought I’ll just do it as it have loads of support from.my partner and family. It got a date booked in November! Bit nervous now it’s booked! I should be getting a call this week with a final consultation with my surgeon to finalise what size etc to go for . X

    Clara 8
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    September 26, 2017 at 6:23 pm
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    How exciting you have a date booked!! How did you decide on your surgeon? How many times have you met him before?

    I had my initial consultation on Saturday and have been told to see which surgeon I’d prefer, I have no idea? Arghhh ???????? xxxx

    Anonymous
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    September 28, 2017 at 7:29 am
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    Hi honey.

    I’ve wanted it done since I was literally 13. I’ve been so unhappy for such a long time. I felt guilty paying for it too. I have 2 young children (2 years & 9 months) and felt that money could’ve been used as support but my hubby told me to go for it.

    I didn’t want to hide away on a beach anymore and especially in the bedroom.

    I’m 4 days post op now and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done and 100% glad I went through with it. I cried waking up because I was so happy xxx

    Clara 8
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    September 28, 2017 at 10:16 pm
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    Thanks for the reply, I’m such a worry wart, even though it’s something I really would love to do I always worry about the cons rather than pros. My other half knows how much I want it done and so is trying to get me to stop worrying so much and think of the positives!

    Would you say it outweighs the no sleep, pain, cost etc? How long after contacting the clinic for your first appointment did you then book and have surgery? Sorry for all the questions! Xxxx

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