The in laws!!! Started by: Sarah

Unless your planning on Undressing infront of them or they are paying for it then their opinion is irrelevant if they have anything to say just tell them how much their son enjoys them that will shock them into silence hahaha xx

I’m having mine done the day after you and I only told my mum on Friday. She’s totally against the idea, she thinks unnecessary surgery is pointless, and obviously being my mum thinks I’m perfect as I am. I knew that which is why I was so nervous to tell her. I did hint a few months ago that I was looking into it, but ever since I actually booked my date in I couldn’t feel excited or look forward to it because this horrible fear of her reaction would creep in. Honestly I don’t know why I was so nervous. I’m 27 your 31. We’re fully grown adults. It’s your own money, your own body and 100% your decision. Just tell them casually. Drop it in. Don’t make it a big deal, because it’s not a big deal to them. It’s nothing to do with their feelings or opinions, and I was very surprised by my mums nonchalant reaction which mostly comprised of “ok darling”. Just mention it in passing to your mother in law. Bring the date up, or plans for the weekend before, then say “because I’m actually having surgery that Tuesday I’m having my boobs done”…. let it sink in and just carry on talking. If you make a big deal telling her then she will. I told my boyfriends mum this weekend too in a very casual way and all she said was “ok lovely and you’ve checked the surgeon out and everything”. Just bite the bullet. I was anxious over this for months and now I feel so excited. I want that for you too! It’s your body remember that! Good luck!

I’m exactly the same! I’m going on holiday with my boyfriend and in laws next year and if I do decide to go ahead i have no idea how to bring it up! Just gonna show up at the pool and not say anything haha!

I totally get this Hunni xx I had a uplift and BA last Monday.I 100% didn’t want my parents in law or Sister in law finding out. I’ve no family of my own close by , I told my family the day after the op as I knew they would try to talk me out of it, which they agreed they would have! Only as they like to think I was perfect already etc but now they are being supportive and texting checking how I’m recovering. The inlaws love to find fault in all I do so I know they would disagree and love to comment on how I’ve spent my husbands hard earned cash on new boobs! Firstly it will be both our wages paying them off and secondly it’s giving birth and nursing their grandson that did most of the damage haha. As it’s landed they are away on holiday for 2 weeks so I haven’t had to hide anything at all. I think if they were here though I would have made out I’d pulled my back or my shoulder. I’ve had a lot of post op pain so have been hobbling about a bit. As others have said though it is absolutely nothing what so ever to do with them. If they do find out and have anything bad to say it will most likely be due to jealousy that you e lovely new boobs 🙂 Good luck with your surgery xxx