I’ve got my surgery 18th Jan but I’m seriously reconsidering doing it now I’m at like 75% sure I don’t want to I got the finance what will happen with that and will i get my deposit back in hoping you do anyone been in this position?
I believe you have a 2 week cool off period from when you took out the finance. I would double check but I’m certain after this point it’s non refundable. Did you take finance with Mya? Might be worth talking to them to see where you stand? Xx
Yes I got the finance threw them and everything went threw about 2 weeks ago I really hope I can get it back I’ll be so gutted if I can’t 🙁 x
Can I ask why you are reconsidering babe?
It is so normal around this point to want to back out and almost beat yourself up for spending so much money / opting for surgery / worrying about what ifs.
But .. it’s 100% one of the best things I’ve ever done, I’m now 3and a half months post op and really starting to love them!
If you really have changed your mind then I hope you get your money back xx
Since I booked the Surgery and stuff I started doing loads of research reading about other people watching loads of videos and there just so many risks a bit one being vs and breast implant illness and I can’t afford a explant if I wa stop have any of the issues and I would feel so trapped if I got and illnesa then I couldn’t get them removed it sucks I might not get them but I also night and I don’t no if I want to take the risk because it’s such a big massive thing like I want them done so so badly but I could deal with cc or breast implant illness as it sounds awful xx
One being CC , sorry about spelling mistakes x
Tonne honest Hun the amount of women having their boobs done is insane and the percentage of things going wrong is a very small percentage. Maybe if you were a person with already underlying conditions then I would agree it’s not necessarily the best decision. What about the ladies who have had breast cancer and had a breast or even both removed. To feel and look feminine again they can have breast implants. No matter what you do in life there are risks with everything. Either way it is your choice and be content with whatever you choose. Xx
Did u go to your pre op app? Just read on your other post it was today did u ask the nurse any questions you hadvw to put yr mind at rest? Personally I think you should wait until your 100 per cent sure you want to go ahead as it’s not something to be taken lightly, there are risks with anything you do in life, I am 1 wpo today and have always wanted to have it done nothing would have put me off, good luck hope u make the right choice xx
I no what you mean there’s risks to everything it’s just scared all the side effects you can get it just really really scares me in just so unlucky It will moat probably happen to me I did go to my pre op today
Think positive hun and speak to your surgeon with your concerns xx
Thank you so much for the lovely replies you actually made me feel alot better I spoke to my partner as well and he does think I should go ahead as he knows i wanted it for a long time x
@tiffanylorraine I understand your concerns, I have similar, although mine are a little more irrational…I keep thinking that something might go wrong and I might die! It’s making me really anxious! And as much as I tell myself people go under GA everyday and this op is so commonly done, I still keep thinking that I’m taking a risk. My anxiety is starting to put me off! 🙁 x
@tiffanylorraine lovey you sound just like me! I booked my BA and then text my PC to say I’d changed my mind and asked for a refund, but after joining this forum and reading about everyone’s experiences and speaking to my close friends and family, I decided to go through with the operation. At the end of the day if you lived your life by “what if” then you’d never leave your house – risks are everywhere. Like the ladies have said the number of complications against the sheer volume of women having the op are so tiny it’s not worth missing out on having the surgery for. You only get one life and one body and if this is what you’ve wanted for a good while then I can guarantee you it is 100% the best thing you will ever do. This whole journey is a rollercoaster of emotions and the pre op nerves are totally part of it, but don’t let them stop you in your tracks. Honestly go for it, we’re all right behind you! Xxx
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