Hi KT, im the same as you. Ive not long had my 2nd child and im currently on maternity leave but ive taken 12 months so my maternity money has stopped. My partner has his own business that is quite slow at the minute due to the industry slowing down, and he has to pay all the bills morgage shopping, feed our 2 kids etc…
I have been saving a little bit each month for 12 months now, and finally have the full amount to be able to walk in and pay it straight off with cash. And i do feel well maybe i should spend it on my children. However we have not long come back from 2 weeks in Egypt which i paid for out of my maternity pay out. I just trhink its something ive always wanted, i had 2 children in the space of 2 years and they ruined my boobs, and its a little something i want to do for myself. Suzanne is right you do only live once, and do you know what, if you wait and think i’ll wait untill this happens, there will always be something else and then your never findthe right time.
The big thing for me was that i am paying for it myself, i want it so im paying for it.
Sorry to of gone on, just do it, its something that you need to do for yourself, and your bf will prob be happy if it gives you that extra bit of confidence.
Lucy x x x x
