Scared not enough support am I doing the right thing?? Started by: Anonymous

Hey Hun think we have all felt like this, I stopped telling people before hand didn’t even tell my dad until afterwards because everyone’s an expert did u know!
If I were you I’d send lots of friend requests to us girls that are post op and look at before and after pics that will put your mind at rest!
Please do send each girl a mesg before you add them as they may not have read this post and theirs some creeps on here trying to access pics!
Feel free to add me Hun x

Hi I had the same even my partner was against it. My mum was too after I told her then called me back to say if it’s what I wanted then to go for it and she was happy for me.
I had my ba on Wednesday with mr Singh, I’ve had 2children and gone from a 32dd-e to a 30c-d with no upper fullness.
I had 470overs was offered 495 but because I wanted a more natural look mr Singh suggested the 470
It did upset me that my family weren’t with me on my decision but after thinking it over most have turned!
If its what you definitely want then go for it and they will come around 🙂

haha wynrush123 is right, all people see are Jordan’s and Jodies boobs. although my consultant told me Mya did Jordan’s once but apparently at one point she went for 1500cc. the point is only you.now how you feel and if your doing it for you them it’s the right decision. it’s your body. for years I have felt lacking and it gets me down
only thing stopping me now is money and fear. eventually I will crack it and do it! the girls on here look so good and are so kind! it really helps to talk to people who understand. my mum has been brilliant, I didn’t think she would be as supportive but as your an adult.what can people say? don’t let people bring you down. I’ve chosen to hide it from my family except my mum and partner (who has gradually come round to the idea) because I don’t need negative feedback and also not doing it for them but for me. if you feel this way and feel like I do. I don’t think you will feel better until you do it. your obviously serious else you would not have booked it! don’t let.people crush your confidence, it’s your body and we are all here for you. xxx

Stephanie I totally relate to all what you are thinking. I have only told 2 close friends & my hubby. I have considered having BA for 5 years plus. I am not telling my parents as know they have very old fashioned views & although my mum knows I have always felt down about my flat chest she wouldn’t agree. Agree with other girls, in the end you need to do it for yourself if you feel it is right. I’m fed up of chicken fillets & padded bras. I think it’s great that this forum exists & there are some very helpful comments. I’m meeting Kazzazi on Tues too, totally scared but know afterwards my confidence will be where it should be. If people judge us….let them its non of theur business x Is it ok to add you as friend? x

Yeah tarwie agree with comment about push up bras. Do you think you will take next step & see surgeon Hun? Feel free to add me as friend, it helps to have others to chat to who totally understand each other x

Thanks chick,have added u x

You can only do this for yourself if you listened to people you will never get it done ! I there’s always people that will make you dout your decision , wish I never told certain people but that’s not gunna stop me lol good luck xxx

Hi Stephanie how did u get on with Kazzazi today? I met him in Nottingham. He offered me 340 unders from 34a think they should give me result I want, hopefully will be D cup. I thought he was very professional & sweet. Hope ur consultation went well x

Bless ya. Suppose as u had an idea of size in your head before meeting him it would throw u off track. He obviously wants to ensure implants fully cover tissue Hun. Hopefully there will be other girls on here who are size 8 & had similar size implant at least then u can look at pics to get better idea of how they will look. He does know his stuff & is well known for giving natural look. Op is booked for 4th Jan. What time did u see him? I may have passed u in reception. Laura is lovely 🙂 x