Take a minute … Started by: charlie1234

I don’t think it should be decided on what a man wants! I’m the same as Sharon I have a 3 year old son and my fiancé is paying for my op for ME because he knows how much I how unhappy my boobs make me and have done for years.Yes it’s a big decision but it should be decided on what you want, not what anyone else wants x

I agree its a decision which is not to be taken lightly and needs a great deal of thought as its not something which can be easily reversed x

Natural boobs may have been all mine but I hated them so I could do something about it and I did, not all implants look fake and un natural

I haven’t had mine done yet. Less than 3weeks away, so frickin excited. 🙂 I’m doing this for myself and wanted it done when I was 18 but was adviced to wait till I’m 21. I’m now 22 and I’ve been putting it off because of one thing and another. Now it’s happening I can’t actually wait. I just want it to happen now. Some people might think ‘oh you bimbo’ but that’s usually the people that have boobs. For us that don’t have boobs or aren’t happy with them, it something that can be ‘mended’ x

I agree with you Kaley….does seem a bit suspect. I’m having mine done in 2 weeks & waited almost 10 years to build up courage to have this done for no one else but me. Amen 🙂 x

I think to wind us all up xx

This post is a bit odd on a cosmetic forum!! My breasts are a lot more “normal” looking now than before i had them done. I felt like a complete freak with saggy boobs from nursing at 22! My fiance was against it until i had it done and now says it was worth all the money that I actually paid. Not him

My bf seems perfectly happy with my FAKE silicone lumps..and aslong as me and my parnter are happy I couldnt give a flying monkeys what anyone else thinks of my boobs. And tbh how would you know what A LOT of other men like? Have you done a survey?

I know plenty of men, I own four pubs, and trust me, they don’t fricking care whether they are real or fake… As long as there’s something in a top for them to stare at! They are one-track-minded
Us woman have done this for us, for whatever reason, there’s few that do it for the attention, and the ones that do, go stupid, and huge for no reason other then because they can!
It’s a personal decision we make for us xx

Everyone should know not to change therselfs for anybody else other than themselves though, I could have never gone through a boobjob for someone else, I was too darn scared, but knew it had to be done for me cause it was the only way I could feel good about myself having 2 kids at 20 and then been left with shriveled horrid boobs is not good for any 20 year olds self esteem I just wanted to feel normal for my peace of mind and now I do. If you go into it for the right reasons and think it throughfor long enough, it wouldn’t be a regret. Obviously doing it for someone else when your perfectly happy with your boobs is going to be pretty traumatic in the end.

Charlie what you say is right, surgery isn’t a perfect thing for everyone, but we are all adults who should be bright enough to make our own decisions and sometimes things just go wrong, nothing’s perfect in this world, you just make the best of it as you can, and sometimes things just go wrong, but hey, that’s life.

But there are around 9 to 10,000 breast augmentations per year in the UK alone. This isn’t down to people being forced into something they don’t want 😉

My favourite saying is pretty simple “shit happens” sadly it sounds like it did to your friend, but people die crossing the road it doesn’t stop everyone else from crossing.

No not at all I get what your saying, think about it. BUT most people have surgery do it for the right reasons, it sounds like your friends done it for the total wrong reasons, so obviously she’s going to regret it. If a girl is uncomfortable with themselves and they can do something about it then go for it. But if theres doubts then its obvious not to go ahead with it. 1 thing in life is never change for anyone else, cause someone will love you for the exact person that you are without Changing. It’s actually sad that people would do things so drastic for other people

even if a woman is happy with her natural boobs but just wants big fake boobs who gives a damn! i personally hate my natural boobs but even if i didnt and i wanted bigger boobs i would have a BA! everyone has their own reasons but there isnt a law saying you must be depressed to get a boob job and feel good about themselves!!! GIRLS DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!

Forgive me if I am wrong and offend anyone however, Charlie1234, why would you sign up to a forum for girls who want plastic Surgery for THEIR OWN REASONS and ask us to think about it, do you not think every girl on here, myself included have thought about this decision a thousand times over? I am 5 days PO and am over the moon with them and like Beckie 90 so is my boyfriend. 🙂 I do hope your signing up wasnt only to preach to us.. The girls on this forum who are in the same sitatution as me have been a god sendand helped me through this process and I thank each and every one of them. MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY BOOB YEAR!!! xxxx

I agree with rachel those that bitch always want i am not giving any explanation to some fool who has come on here as to why i wanted surgery is no one business as i paid for the surgeries myself so charlie hope you enjoyed the attention you received

I wish you could like statement on here like comments on FB! lol

Kirsten your comment Is really brave and so true. I’d just like to add my two cents, if I may. I booked in to have my surgery last week and I ended up cancelling it at the last minute. There were various reasons for this, some of which I won’t go in to on here, however one of the reasons was the fact that I’m struggling to get past the stigma which surrounds this surgery, and comments like the above only serve to enforce that stigma. I myself don’t see cosmetic surgery as a bad thing, I think it’s a fantastic opportunity, providing that you approach it with a healthy attitude and for the right reasons. However I just struggled to get past this worry about “what will other people think of me?” And “I don’t want to be thought of as ‘fake'”. That’s my issue, which I am dealing with, and once I have got past that, which i will, I will re-book my surgery and approach it from a positive place, just like the other women on this forum, who in my opinion are not ‘fake’ and certainly not silly, foolish people who have gone into this because they think men will like them more (which you have implied in your post). There are, of course, women who will choose to have this surgery for that reason and they are coming from a different place entirely but even so you would have absolutely no right to pas comment on that either as what people choose to do with their own body is their own business and their own choice. If you can’t use this forum in a positive, constructive way then you should probably leave and take your ugly comments elsewhere where I’m sure they might be more valued ( or perhaps not).

My boobies will be a month old on the 27th…and I think I love them more everyday! I don’t see them as fake..they are a part of me and they suit me a whole lot better than my old pair!! Best decision I ever made. People shouldn’t judge or be judged. The girls on this forum helped me from becoming a nervous wreck before my op and for that I’ll be forever grateful! Have a fantastic Christmas girls! 🙂 xx

i knew from the age.of 15that if i ever wanted to have boobs id have to go down this route as im same size as a 10year old up top. iv waited for 15 years to finally do it im really wishing id done it sooner. and quite frankly i don’t give a damn what “men” prefure its my body and my body and my body only! and i wanna wear grown up clothes for a change……