Slightly disheartened! Started by: Danielle

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    Having been emailing another company about my BA research and consultations coming up ive been told I potentially might need a lift aswell!!! (I sent her a photo)
    A LIFT for godness sake im JUST 18, HAVE’NT had children and feel very disheartened by it all. Feel negative enough about the things on my chest that are supposidly meant to be boobs, without being told i now might need an lift aswell! So in general i feel just feel very crappy about it all at the minute. I’m asymmetrical and im very concerned that i might go through with this whole procedure spending alot of money and still not be even at the end! Ladies that can offer abit of guidance about it all would be much appreicated.

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    hey hun, sometimes having something you are prepared for is the best cause of action. obviously you havent seen a surgeon face to face, and most surgeons offer different solutions to fixing your boobs. so shop around and see as many as you want, and go with whoever you gel with the most.
    i should have had a lift with my op (one wasnt offered, but i would have felt the same as you before hand if it was) and because i didnt have one, my results arent the nicest (i dont need a lift to help with anything other then the fact i have snoopy deformity, and the only fix is a lift)
    dont feel put off by an email, you have loads of support on here 🙂 xx

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    Thankyou Joannabella, i really appreciate all the girls support, id be lost without it! Just feel very down about it all at the minute the finish line feels a lifetime away. 🙁 xx

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    of course it will do hunny, but you have the advice off one person who hasnt even seen you in the flesh, dont let it get you down 🙂 just keep on knowing that soon you will have results you are proud of
    hugs xx

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    I’ve PM’ed you, hope that isnt a problem.
    Suppose so, it just seems a lifetime away!
    Maybe a few consultations will help, i also want everybody to tell me a very similar thing cos otherwise thats likely to make me even more confused about it all! If an uplift is what i need then thats fine as long as everybody tells me the same thing. xx

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    PM’d you back hun 🙂
    most surgeons will offer something different, some say that a larger implant will stop the need for an uplift, but this could cause more sagging further down the road (not always at all) others will say you may not need an uplift and that a normal BA will be perfect, others may say moving your nipples will sort you, if you do get offered the same option more then twice then i will be shocked xx

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    Thankyou very much. 🙂
    Oh ok, as long as whatever the surgeon offers works to solve the problems i dont care. I did think i might need my nipples moving due to them handing low and being bigger than id like. I just want to be even, have normal nice shaped breasts. 🙁 xxx

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    And you will have them soon hunny 🙂 you’re heading in the right direction, just keep on it and you will have boobs bursting out tops soon xx

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    I just want my consultation now to find out my options and what surgeons suggest! Looking online i think i also have snoopy deformity.

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    HeyDanielle, get some pics on, there are girls on here who can give some good advice on whether you have droop/snoopy. I thought I would need an uplift, and one surgeon at THG said I had ‘borderline sag’ which was a bit shit really :-(. But look at my pics, I was no where near perky, but a standard BA has left me with nice boobs for now. Dont get downheartened til you’ve seen a good surgeon like mr t in the flesh. You will be fine hun. But if you do need an uplift (which I doubt) then like joannabella says, better to know than go through the expense of a BA and the pain for no reason. I’m sure you won’t need an uplift, take care hun, chin up x x x

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    Thank you Hun its brilliant to know I’ve got supportive friends on here! I will try upload a photo now!:( xx

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    Hi hun im 20 and although didnt need an uplift i had a nipple lift, i was so upset when i found out i needed the nipple lift because of scarring costs etc but tbh its the best thing i ever did i cant imagine getting just the implants and know i have better longer lasting results from my nipple lift 🙂 x

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    Would you mind if I added you Georgina so I could see your scars! I have been trying to upload a photo all day it it won’t let me!:( hope it can be solved by just having high projection implants but whatever the outcome I just want to be happy do you also mind if I ask how much you paid?xxx

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    Aww honey I understand totally I was also disheartened when finding out I had to have an uplift I was only 20 without children or excessive weight loss & hearing I’d be having a different lift on each boob too, one nipple lift the other anchor but all I had to do to is look at results of the girls on here that have had similar or the same & started to feel confident it would make me happier than my pre op boobs, it also helped me choose my surgeon easier then, bish bash bosh I have my boobies & LOVE them wouldn’t change the procedure as I’d have different boobs 🙂 as soon as this forum gets its bum into gear I’ll get my recent scar pics on xx

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    I would go an physically see surgeons and see what they say I saw for different surgeons before making my decision and like you I was very disheartened as the second one I saw told me I needed a lift on one side only. Long of the short is every other surgeon I saw said definitely not and I decided to go against the one side lift surgeon and my boobs are perfect [in my eyes].
    Add me if you like xx

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    That was supposed to say four different surgeons x

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    It is very disheartening ducky it’s not even like I’ve lost a fair bit of weight it’s just alot of my breat tissue is at e bottom; I’m trying very hard to upload a picture! The lady I have emailed I 100% trust I’m seeing her in person on 24th and once she explained she might be able to get round it with yay moving a nipple or even high responsive implants but I trying to stay positive. She explained its nothing to do with saying skin it’s simply my breast tissue due to having tabular breasts!
    Thankyou nips, I’ve been told everybody will probably suggest something different as there is different ways of fixing it.
    From my point of view it was just horrible I sit there and see at 18 I potentially needed a uplift my breasts are a absolute mess as it is as they’re different sizes so this made me feel alot worse!:(
    But thankyou to all because its brilliant to see although it’s fab to see you’re all exceptionally pleased regardless! Xxx

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    Sorry an awful lot of mistakes I’ve only just woken up!!!

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    Bless you chick, all you can do is see as many surgeons possible & then go from there, were here to support you 🙂
    Are your boobs anything like mine pre op? Xx

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