Feeling wobbly and possibly regretting doing this Started by: Belle265
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Belle265
0pHiya ladies, have had a really wobbly time since my BA as most of you know, I’ve struggled with the fact that I feel my implants are too small for my body and I feel so embarrassed that this is the result after surgery. To add to things there is a guy who I really like who I was seeing a bit before my surgery. He doesn’t know I had it done as I haven’t really told anyone and its not noticeable at all- I look smaller now than I did before! 🙁 however I’m really worried as I really like this guy but obviously nothing much can happen at the moment, but even after 6weeks or longer I will be so embarrassed for anything to happen as I don’t want anyone to see them. Especially as I work with him so I wouldn’t want anyone at work finding out about it. I just feel like I’m never going to be able to live my life properly as I have gone from being embarrassed about flat chest to being embarrassed of my implants! And because of the way I feel I have been very cold with this guy so he probably now thinks I am not interested when actually I wally like him, I just feel like I’m trapped! Anyway sorry to rant I just don’t know where else I can say this! Xx
Oh @Belle, I’m really sorry u feel this low, but u know we women r never happy, r we? 🙂 Seriously, if I have your boobs and your body ( they really suit u), I would strip anytime :). In my opinion, no one reliazing I had a surgery, after taking of my clothes off, is big compliment.
To the guy think, u should see my boobs b4 surgery and I did have insecurities, but I never hear someone to say me, “oh sorry, your boobs r saggy and non existed so I’m not going out with u anymore”. Guys really don’t care. They do like to look at nice woman, but if they do like someone, they really don’t care, all is just in ours heads. If u need to talk, just PM me 😉 xxxxBelle265
0pThanks Lucia, I will do. 🙂 obviously I did this for me and not for any guy, and if I was happy with the results I don’t think I would feel as self conscious or worried about anyone finding out but I’m not unfortunately. I may feel better on ce they soften and drop more, at the moment feel like they’re two little tennis balls on my chest ha. Hope you’re ok love, yours are looking amazing! X
if it helps at all when i had my post of check up i was told that they can still drop more an fluff more throughout most of our first year. i know its kinda depressing thinking there not big enough and there were times i thought u should have gone bigger ash looked so small Defo when i looked down at them . but now nearly at 8 weeks im very glad i didn’t go bigger. hopefully urs will settled quickly and ur suddenly think man i have amazing boobiage now it was all so worth it.
Belle265
0pThanks Tracey, I really hope so! I wanted a natural look as I was very flat and have a small chest so I didn’t want to completely change my body but I wish someone would have advised me better on the sizes. I was told I would look in proportion and I definitely don’t. I wouldn’t have gone much bigger as I didn’t want to be top heavy but I just feel a bit let down. Also feel let down by the aftercare at mya. The nurses have been great but my pc might as well not exist! Thanks love xx
Awwww belle, really sorry to hear ur feeling like this. I guess this whole boobie journey is full of ups and and downs. I really hope u start liking ur boobs a bit more, I think we are all overly critical of ourselves so we all give ourselves a hard time even when there’s no need, its just cuz we r used to doing it. To me, ur boobs look absolutely amazing and I’m sure to the guy in question he’d think so too. Its still really early days as well, so give them time! I’m hating how stuck on mine r feeling but just need to remember that having surgery isn’t a ‘quick-fix’. Hopefully in a few weeks we will both be loving our new additions, and if the guy hasn’t stuck around then he obviouisly wasn’t worth the worry in the first place.
All ur boobie buddies on here r here for u hun xxxBelle265
0pHey jakki 🙂 yeah it’s definitely a bit of a rollercoaster isn’t it! You’re right though I am giving myself a really hard time, I’m like that with everything though! It’s definitely not a quick fix at all, took me 6 years to get the bottle to do it and I pulled out the first time haha. I think that’s why I’m feeling low cause there is so much build up and you expect to look and feel a certain way then you don’t. I think it will get better though 🙂 I’m just having a bad few days cause I thought my scars were healing well but they are starting to look quite bad, really red and lumpy! 🙁 you’re right him if he doesn’t stick around he’s not worth it, I just really like this one haha 🙂 x
right missy i just had a little looksi at your pics and im telling you if i was a dude id be well chuffed with getting to play with them lol.
seriously though they do look good nothing to be embarased or ashamed of at all.
i dont know what size or projection of implants you had or if you had overs or unders or any thing like that but i swear to you now they look good so just tru to relax and let the heeling contiue 🙂Rachel
0pI’m feeling regretful to chick, I was a 32a and I feel top heavy, I had 325cc at the min I’m a 34d, only had them done on Monday, I’m fine lying down they feel almost normal but sat up and walking round they feel awful on my body, there heavy and numb, I haven’t been out the house since Monday cuz I hate there way there feeling. I actually miss my little boobs xx
Belle265
0pHahaha Tracey!!! How funny! That really made me chuckle and actually really cheered me up! Thanks love. I want yours they look amazing and such a huge difference! Xxxx
Aw Rachel you poor thing! That will definitely change though, 100%. Honestly chuck it will, in a few weeks you will absolutely love them and probably wish you had gone bigger! They will be feeling very tight and heavy at the moment, mine definitely did! I didn’t dare take my sports bra off at all I kept saying “they’re too heavy they will drop off!” Haha! Now they just feel like part of me, I’m not even aware of them apart from the odd twinge in my scars. That will happen for you too hun just give it a few weeks. In the meantime keep drugged up and comfortable! Xxxxxxx
i am very chuffed with mine i have to admit! i had 365cc high profile unders, wanted to look antural and fit with my body, thought id be about c-d when i had them but i actually messure as a 30 e.
i look more like someone whose about a 34c in clothes :).
@rachel
the first couple of weeks is a really weird time you go though so many strange feelings and sensations in your boobies and one always seems to have more sensation than the other, there are times when you are stupidly numb and they feel like there not on you and then theres times when they feel so heavy and weighty u just want to rip them out but i promise you it sudenly all feels normal almost over night.
i still have the odd sharp pain hear and there but mine have got fairly soft n squedgy now and feel like apart of me. happy heeling 🙂Rachel
0pI hope so girls feel so down this week over it but I’m sure if it’s happened to u it’ll happen to me to got to b patient. Thanks lovelys xx
Aww my little chicken please don’t regret it I’m sure it’s just one of the many emotions we go through so I’m hoping this is what it is for you atm, there’s so many stages & phases to this recovery malarkey but we’ll get through it 🙂 you’ll get there honey one step at a time xxx
oooh & ^ is to you Rachel, think positive time doesn’t go very fast when you’re not having fun ai, but it will when you get your baps in a nice sexy bra 😉 just try keep an open mind, unfortunately surgery isn’t a quick fix but the outcome will be worth the wait xx
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0pHey hun, I was once like you and one my ex used to be awfull with his eyes woundering eyes lol..but you know what flaunt it strut your stuff if he don’t like it well he ain’t worth it lol man gotta love you for who you are no matter what size you are, give him a call and express your feelings see how it goes all the best x
Anonymous
0pCan I just ask how can you look smaller then before?? Anyway I haven’t seen them but I’m sure they look fab and possibly its just a boob greed? X
Belle265
0pThey definitely look bigger when I’m naked haha just in clothes they look the same or even smaller cause I used to wear ridiculously padded bras sometimes in a size bigger as they had more padding! At least now it’s not padding though and doesn’t look silly anymore, never thought about it at the time but I’m sure it didn’t look great. Can’t wait to get rid of these sports bras x
Eeee me too Belle! Hasn’t even been a week for me yet and they r doing my head in! Hope ur feeling a bit more positive hun xxxxx big hugs xxxxx
Belle265
0pThanks Jakki my love, I have good and bad days, just trying not to think about it today! 🙂 thanks for your support love, you’re an absolute dream xxxx
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