hey girls, i had mine done a week today .. has anyone else felt low after the B/A ? 🙁
i feel so down latetly i cant stop crying, my boyfriend has left me last night , i dislike my boobs, im in pain, im uncomfortable – im finally back at work and i just am filling up constantly .
is this normal? 🙂 xx
Aww honey, boyfriends..they’re not very good at this probably just needs time, like yourself, they don’t handle this very well at all but it’s perfectly natural to feel the way you do it’s a very emotional & vunerable journey, you’ve just had surgery, your healing, can’t do the things you’re used to normally doing & all the drugs in your system are causing havoc…I was exactly the same but you’ve just got to breathe through it & ride it out, don’t beat yourself up about it or let anybody else but just try to look ahead everything will come together in time just keep positive you’ll get there eventually babe, you’ve got the first week over with, now time will fly 🙂 chin up honey I hope it all comes together for you xxx
hiya babe, i felt exactly the same i felt like the pain and discomfort was never going to end, i got so tired and upset i just wanted to cry all the time, but being depressed is a side effect of everything going on i read it on the internet, i promise u in 2 weeks time u will forget what you were so upset about i did 😀 im 5 weeks post op and i feel totally back to normal and happier than ever
I was reading the boobie bible last night and saw someone highlight post surgery blues, and how you aren’t told about them but how they are very common, its just in the first few weeks you will feel up and down like youve made a mistake but its all normal and it will pass. xxxx
I’m feeling exactly the same hun :/ but I struggle with depression at the best of times anyway. Just try and ride it out. Iv made myself a boobie diary where I write everything down and iv got pics of my boobs pre-surgery. With all the discomfort its hard to remember why u actually put urself thru the surgery in the first place. I’m really struggling with headaches at the min from all the tablets which is sooo frustrating. PM me if u need to talk or need anything at all. Even just a rant about something 😉 I cried today when I was making pasta for me and my little boys lunch, all because I had no cheese to put on top! X
Hi Georgina, sorry to hear you are feeling this way. It really makes me have second thoughs about have BA when I hear the effects it can have on some people. As the girls above said this is probably normal and you will be so happy once your new boobies are settled in. I think I will be asking the surgeon about this when I go for my consultation. As with Jackie I too can get abit depressed and am a very emotional person so Its quite worrying that this can be a side affect. Anyway, hope you feel better soon and get things sorted with your boyfriend.xx
Hey georgina hope your ok, sounds like it is something a lot of ppl feel and its normal so dont beat your self up, you obviously wanted BA for reason so try think of why you did… as for jakki, ducky and megan no way should any of you feel down you all look great! soo jel cant wait till i book in for surgery :(:P xx chin up georgina!! x
thankyou for all your help everyone, i dont want to sound mean but it is quite comforting knowing that im not that only one! haha, do you mind if i add you al :D?
think im just letting things get on top of me, a very emotional rollercoaster, just wasnt expecting feeling like this, was expecting to be over the moon to be honest!
hope all you girls are okay though! if anyone wants to have a moan or just am emotion chat message me
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Thats what were all here for its more a support network i think, ppl are lovely and really helpful things will get better hun sure you look great 🙂 xx
Its good to know that other girls r going thru similar experiences 🙂 and the fact that we all can come here and have a rant about it makes it all feel a lot more normal, well it does for me anyway! Xx
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