Can anyone help? How did you go about telling people about wanting a BA? Started by: weeze

yes i agree with that last comment louisa…i havent told alot of people, a few close friends and family, but not all family! haha my partenrs family dont know yet…never mind. Suprise!!! hahaha ;~) x x

Sonia, I have noticed exactly the same. The people who criticise you having it done are the same people who would love it done themselves x

I think it’s lovely for the girls who have lots of support. In my case, I do already have boobs but after breastfeeding they just aren’t what they were and people assume I already have good boobs, this is only cos I make the best of them in clothing, but it’s for this reason that I think I can get away with not telling people cos they may not notice that much of a difference.
Good luck to those girls that are telling someone though, just remember why you’re doing it and how your new boobs are gonna make you feel xxx

I have told a few people in work and my boyfriend knows. Think its hard to keep things like this to yourself cause people will wonder why you have been off work but i agree that at the end of the day it’s upto you what you want to do with your body and it’s no one elses business. I’ve had really bad responses from my friends saying that there is nothing wrong with me and they can’t understand why i want it done. it’s ok for them they already have big boobs!

AmyLou x

my mum came with me to all my appointments and everyone i no no’s!. as far as im concerened its my body my decision and i dont care what people think. this is something ti have wanted for years and now i can have it! most people who give u negative feedback are probably just jealous !
x

i am having my BA on the 7th oct, which just happens to be my 30th birthday so i had to tell a few people as they were wanting to go out and celebrate. i have to say that i have had to explain and justify myself to everyone, with hardly any support offered. If you want to go through this experience happy and with no guilt, my advice is to tell no-one. when its done its done, and then they can say as like.

I am in the same situation as you! Only told my boyfriend and best mate at the mo. Wanna tell my mum but i know she’s gonna go mad but she’ll blatently notice and i will feel bad if i go though with it and her not to find out until afterwards. What did other people do?

Hi Weeze, I haven’t told anyone other than my hubby and 2 friends from work. I know people in my family will say I’m mad and question how i can afford it. It’s not that I want to hide my new boobs away or that I’m ashamed of getting a ba but I don’t want to have to justify it to anyone.
Having said that it’d be so much easier if I could tell them, I hate having secrets.

Rio x