Should I say something?! Started by: Catherine

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Catherine
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May 2, 2013 at 12:09 am
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Hi girls, I need advice!
I split with my husband a year ago and I have twin girls aged 12. I’ve finally booked my surgery (TT and BA) for 10th August and was feeling very good about doing this for myself. Then I’ve only gone and met someone I really like (I had honestly given up) and we are seeing a lot of each other. He doesn’t know about the surgery as its not really something that comes up in convo when you first meet! But… I’m going to have to aren’t I as its only about 15 weeks away. I’m just worried as to how he might react? I won’t change my decision but its on my mind a lot that I haven’t told him…hence not sleeping tonight! What do you think? :-/ xxx

Pepperpot
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May 2, 2013 at 7:39 am
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tell him hun..ure doing it for yourself which is the right resason..what bloke wouldn’t love the chance to play with new boobs!! xx

rachael
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May 2, 2013 at 10:33 am
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I’d leave it a couple of weeks and tell him, say its something you have wanted for a long time now and its been booked since before you met him. Im sure he’ll understand your doing it for you! My boyfriend of 5 years didn’t really want me to get it done, but nothing was stopping me and im sure when they get better and softer he will be happy! Its so common these days im sure he wont be against it unless he’s very old fashioned – even then if he likes you enough im sure he will come round to the idea xxx

Catherine
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May 2, 2013 at 1:07 pm
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Thanks girls, @Pepperpot…. when you put it like that….
@Rachael you have a point! If he doesn’t like it then I guess that’s his problem not mine. 🙂 xxx
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