A bit of a personal question … Started by: Laura

I had sex the night I got home from hospital but it was more to please my partner to be fair . I have felt like I want to but issues such as aches pains and constipation have put me off haha x

Honestly that was the last thing on my mind. My husband was also concerned with how worn out and in need of rest i was. Also with 2 children to look after there was no chance. You are supposed to wait 6 weeks i was told by the nurse because of increased heart rate and blood flow.
However i don’t think anybody waits 6 weeks! xx

He doesn’t intentionally make me feel guilty but I feel bad for saying no xxx

Dont let it worry u rachel, i had sex 3 days after and felt so awkward cos it was painful as i couldnt hardly move! Had sex at 13 days PO n my chap laid on me n squashed my boobs! Ouch!! Nearly punched him in the face hahaha!! Xxx

I’ve never had much of a sex drive but since I’ve had my BA my hubby loves my boobs and is gagging for it! I’m still in pain o he’s got no chance! Rachel don’t be upset? You’ve had major surgery? I actually have a reason to say no instead of saying no because I don’t want to n him having a hissy fit! Imagine how they would feel if they’d had it done??? xxx

I have definitely lost my sex drive since the op and my partner has noticed it too, he’s become very worried – keeps asking whats wrong bless him x

Aww babe I felt far from getting sexed up, my partner even bought an air bed incase he knocked me bless, but they generally understand just need a prompt reminder every now & then that you’re not ready but it’ll all be worth it when you are 😉 hope you have an incredibly speedy recovery hun so you can do naughties 🙂 love xx