So my family just found out Started by: Misfion

Sorry to be harsh but tell them to get over themselves, you’re a grown woman for gods sake!

Oh dear, hope you’re ok hun! I am going to tell my parents tomorrow.. hope I don’t get the same reaction! x

babe ur a big girl ur life ur decision, they should be happy there girls happy with herself now hay xx

I was in the same position. Told mum as knew she wouldn’t over react. She’s all for it because like me she’s small chested too and so understands but when I finally picked the courage up to tell my dad he flipped and said its not safe blah blah blah! I’ve left him a few days to dwell on it and he’s finally come round asking me ‘so when are you getting your new tits?’ Haha He’s even lending me the money for it now so I don’t have to take mine out of savings!! Haha 🙂 xx

Lol glad I’m not the only one keeping secrets from my folks. I’m 36, been married and have 3 kids I bring up on my own., moved out of home years ago and this was my 3rd BA, thing is I never told my parents about any of them!! I’m sure they must of noticed my ever growing boobs but they’ve never once even mentioned them! X

Don’t worry about what they think. I know it’s hard because they’re your parents but honestly just remember this is something for yourself and just think of the benefits! Luckily, my family are all really supportive but you always have the boob army on here! This is always where I turn to when I’m feeling a bit down or worried about my op which is a week this Saturday. You have all the girlies on here for support xxxxx

Love you all!!! X

i also have this problem with my parents ,i told them i was thinking of having a gastric wrap after years of dieting and getting know where well they didnt like it at all and was going on saying i just need stop eating! and no dont be doing that its such a big thing ,
well i got the cold shoulder and in the end didnt go through with it ,and i still now am having trouble losing weight which is also stopping me from getting my uplift/implants 🙁
i also am 30 but they make me feel like a child and scared of there reactions !theres no way id mention a boob job that would be it ,iv got a 13 year old and when shes older id support her no matter what she wants to do ,
even if i had another child they wouldnt be happy ,i really need to get some balls and think of my self and not give a dam what they think !its just hard 🙁 xx

If its any consolation Misfion my dad has been totally unsupportive. He has said things like ‘you cant tell with clothes on so whats your problem’ and ‘im too young too be ungoing unnecessary operations with large risks’ And ‘£5000 could be far better spent’. Hes being totally unsupportive and has said he cant accept what im doing and if anything goes wrong he cant wait to say ‘I told you so’. Its got quite spiteful actually. Im just very pleased my mum and step dad are supporting me and know and understand exactly why im doing it! xxx

Considering they are people that are supposed to love us they cant half be spiteful and unsupportive sometimes:(
I know it will be the same for me too Misfion, it will do my confidence the world of good and fix my car crash of a chest :p
Aww that’s lovely, I would also like to add that I haven’t spoke to one horrible person on here, everybody is so understanding.
I agree, one of my friends is considering having her nose done now and she was so scared about telling me, neither of us had told eachother about our surgery and now we’re waiting to have it done at similar times so its worked out lovely! 🙂 Yours are look amazeballs hun! xxx

at times i just cant honestly believe how bad they are ,you shouldnt have to be scared of telling your parents things :/ but they can go to hell coz i will defo be getting these titties done up to them if they cant handle it iv wanted since i was 18!!you only live once i need start standing up for myself .xx

Hi ladies, how r u all? I was really worried about telling my mum + dad, but ended up being worried about nothing, as they are both fine with it + are being really supportive. I think all the years of me moaning about certain clothes not looking right etc etc, they understand why I am doing it. My hubby has been fab, as when I get panicky + say I can’t do this, he keeps telling me u have done the hard bit (telling yr parents) + u have come too far now. Is it okay to add u misfion? X x

No way i can pluck up the courage to tell my Dad! and telling my mum means pretty much telling my Dad anyway so its a no brainer for me. If they find out, they find out…. I am 25 I will probably have a similar reaction to when I got a tattoo!

My main concern is if the surgery went wrong or something happened…. but so many people have BA’s noweverdays im just going to go for it. They will talk me out of it otherwise! x

That’s brilliant to hear Sam, I bet pure so pleased he was ok with it!:) thankfully my mum and step dad ; the people I live with as I’m only 18 have bee super supportive and even put £1500 towards it!:D xxx