second thoughts? Started by: sam

everyone does its only normal its cus ur a gd person after ur feep fine and wont regret it x gd luck

write all the bad things about u dnt like about em the all the gd things after and ur soon feel great how ur feel new clothes ect everyone loves round pert boobs lol x

Yea Nerves that’s all plus your thinking of all the what if’s and but’s etc Its normal but you will be pleased once its done hun 😀 xxx

I’ve had the same worries too. If you have been unhappy for a long time then do it for you. If you are not sure about the size just go back and discuss it again just to ease your mind. I think when you are a mum you find it hard doing something that is just for you and feel bad about it. Well don’t, being a mum is hard and even harder when you are unhappy about something. You’ll be happy and more confident and that will make you a happier mum.

Ata’ girl 🙂 I bet once you have them you will want to show them off to the world. I’m now like – can someone please look at how fab my boobies are. and to my friends – have a feel, feel how squidgy they are ha ha. Its so funny because I never showcased my top half on a night out, only legs. Now I’m like – anybody noticed my new boobs!!??!! No-one has though lol as they look so real xxxx

I am exactly the same- I put done my deposit and then I started doubting it! I thought there’s people worse off than me, am I being vain or selfish? But now I’m just thinking its going to make me more happy and confident, so why shouldn’t I get it? Why should I choose to be unhappy and self conscious? I’ve saved hard for it, so I deserve it 😀 xx

If anyone thinks that then they are the shallow ones! You should do someone to make u happy an like ur body again an if it is going to have a positive effect on ur confidence then why would you not get it done? You can’t think like that Sam. As Chloe said, don’t let that ruin ur life or drive ur decisions about anything! Time to bring ur confidence back up an live your life a happy person. Just because a girl chooses to have breast surgery doesn’t automatically mean she wants male attention, it’s something most girls choose for themselves. Don’t feel guilty one bit, I know I did get a guilty feeling as I’ve not exactly got much money and I am a mum but as the girls have said, I’m a much happier mum now 🙂 its definately money well spent! Xxx

U sound like a very special person that has been on one hell of an emotional rollercoaster and yet has still come out the other side + now it’s time for a bit of u time. U have wanted it done for so long, u want to feel more feminine + like what u see when u look in the mirror, so u hold yr head up high + u go for it girl + u know what bugger what everyone else says, the most important people will be around u…………………………………..I have got my ba on weds + nerves are really starting to kick in now. I have felt all the same emotions as u, am I being selfish doing it for me when I could get my kids this, this + this, what if something goes wrong, what if they don’t look how I want them to. I had a ba booked 2 years ago, but I cancelled it thru nerves etc, but my hubby tells me I am not cancelling this one as I am so close now + have wanted it done for so long x x

I understand about the attention thing, my dad did a cry for help wich went wrong and ended up hanging himself 4 years ago, I got very depressed after that and stayed in, everytime I went out would get panicked attacks, still do sometimes when I go out on my own, lost all my friends and haven’t really got a social life anymore, the worse thing possible for me is a guy coming up chatting to me, I hate bringing attention to myself especially wen I’m alone, but don’t worry breast implants won’t do that, mine haven’t 🙂 xxx

Hiya hunni, you sound like a very brave person to have had to go through what you have babe, ignore what anyone thinks of you, only you walk in your shoes, until others have they cannot Judge you. You are not doing it for anybody else, you are doing it for yourself and your own self confidence. And after what you have been through you are bound to be self conscious Hun, but if people were low enough to say you are drawing attention to yourself after knowing what you have been through then they are the shallow ones. There is nothing shallow with wanting to change something that makes you physically and mentally unhappy. I was always unhappy with my breasts, the only time I liked them was when I was breastfeeding but as you know they don’t stay once you stop..dammit lol. I had my op yesterday and like you I thought what will people think etc but then thought, why the hell am I worrying about what others think, it’s my life, my insecurities and I deserve this and to be happy..go for it babe if it will make you happy..I’m over the moon that I went ahead with mine (I have been putting it off since 2006) if you ever want someone to chat to babes, inbox me xxxx