MEN AND PHOTOS! Started by: alissa2012

May seem unhelpful but personally for me there’s no excuse I would end it!:l fuming! Sorry I can’t think of a reasonable reason to have them !:l you are far better Hun that’s awful ! Xx

I have a child with my ex and tbh we both have moved on well I have but we will always have a connection that no one else can have as we have a child … Doesn’t mean I love him .. But I don’t know how r feels for me … He must still have feelings or attraction sorry to say :/ 🙁 … I would end it before I’m hurt more but if you feel it’s salvageable sit down have a shout make him suffer and demand answers … I can’t think how he could reply but only u know how u feel and the dynamics is he that type or flirty etc anyway? Has it surprised u? Xx

I would rip his head off if he knew anout the pics n lied to you! Men are arses!!! Xx

I can only imagine how ur feeling right now if this was me I’d be hunting him down right now without thinking first so well done for at least asking advise hun! It depends on what else is on there and if they were immediately what you saw if they are then he has no way of saying he didnt know they were there but if there were hundreds of pictures and they were some way through the files it might be a genuine mistake…but I cant see it myself….i’d be gutted. My advise would be to sit and think about this and anything else thats ever annoyed you about your partner and weigh up what it all means to you if its worth it but if this was out of the ordinary and usually his faultless maybe brush it aside but if there are many other things he’s done and this is the tip of the iceburg let rip lol xxx hope you sort it xx

Get an explanation asap!! No point sitting around getting your self wound up. Dont text eother its easier to lie than hearing it in their voice or seeing their faces xx

You should maybe at least give him the chance to give his side, you’ll know if he’s BSing you. I think men have a different outlook on things like that, I would never want to look at old pics of me with an ex would turn my stomach if I was with someone new. But they just look at the sex aspect of it. Horrible for you though hun, must of really shocked you, and some things you can just never get out of your head. Def do it face to face not over the phone..good luck xx

Just be honest and stand your ground because men will try and talk themselves out of anything xx

i wouldnt go too nuts men are just silly and dont think! make him sweat a bit but as sam said….weigh things up, if everything else is awesome dont throw it away for something thats in his past. just make him delete them! x

I agree with the above, confront him about it but instead of getting angry and crying about it, be rational and give him the chance to give you an honest answer… if you blow up he will probably get pissed off and go on the offensive and probably give you a hard time about looking on it in the first place. Similar think happened to me and i went nuts at him and it didnt get me anywhere. X