So I’ve broken up with my bf of 4 years 🙁 feeling pretty devastated right now and wondering whether go ahead with BA at the end of the month will be the right move. I booked this date in particular as I’m a teacher and want to fully recover before september however as I didn’t want this break up im wondering if now is the right time! I’m worried that I will get even more and more depressed sat in the house all summer holidays and not being to exercise. What do you think girls? Feeling pretty hurt right now :'(
Hi Ceri, really sorry to hear this, but well done for sticking to your principles. I’d continue with the planned surgery, now is even more important than ever to do things for YOU, and it will hopefully give you a much needed confidence boost, and also help take your mind off it! If you cancel you may have to wait a long time to reschedule during half terms etc. Go for it girl, be strong xxx
Thank u Hx! I feel that if i dont do it now i never will considering I have a new job in Sept so ideal opportunity. Just worried that I wont cope well mentally after the op!
Aww chick :'( I’m not saying it’ll be easy but maybe this is all fate – new boobs, new job, new start!! If there’s a chance you’ll never do it I defo suggest going ahead with it, hopefully by Sept you’ll believe both choices are the best you’ve ever made! And if you need someone to talk too during the process us girlies are always here xxx
Thank you! Very early days yet, and heartbroken ATM. Hopefully better things to come! X
Aaaaw hun, it’s so hard going through a break up wish I could give u a big hug right now.
You should defo carry on with your plans and do things for yourself. And summer is a time when
You don’t have to stay in, only because you can’t exercise doesn’t mean that you can’t do anything else hun.
You will be ok babe 🙂 xx
Sorry to hear of your heartache but you did the right thing. You obviously weren’t happy with the way things were going and sounds like he has alot of growing up to do. I would defo carry on with the surgery it will give you a new focus which Is what you need right now. And who knows maybe he will come crawling back to you and your new fabulous BIG boobies!! Also this forum is brilliant cos there’s always someone to chat to whenever you need a bit of advice, cheering up, General chat , bit of a bitch or a moan about anything! I come here rather than talking to one of my real life friends! X
Even morrrre reason to go ahead hunni 😉 boys smell…last night i saw that mine had met his ex on sat…not said anything yet tho, so I could very soon be in the same boat as you. ive time mine for summer hols while im off work too. But id deffo still go for it xx
Im 11 days post op and My partners in afghan at the minute and i no the situation is different but i was so worried 6 months sat alone not being able to do anything would get me so down. But honestly when i look in the mirror i cant help but smile!! If anything it has given me the edge to get through it! xxx
If you are having for surgery for YOU still go ahead babes! Men come and go but your boobs re there forever!! Ha! Hope u sort it out if its something that can be worked out though! Xxx
Go for it I say, you may change your mind and not get an appropriate date for ur op again. Come on the forum and talk to us lot, we r all in the same boat and I believe that we r all totally honest but best of all we r not judging and we r on ur side. I think these forums are amazing and I don’t even talk to my own friends about the things I talk about here. Hell, I wear lots of fake inserts all the time so everyone in the world apart from u guys thinks I have big boobs. I tell secrets on here that I should tell family and friends, anyway the point is, we r all here for u, do whatever helps you most. think of u, nobody else. Ur the one who has to live with your body. x
Hope your ok hun. Personally I would say the same as the others, go ahead with the surgery, like you said not sure when you’ll be able to have it done at a later date and before starting a new job is all the better. Your break up is obviously at the forefront of your mind at the moment but also think how much youve wanted your boobs done, even more reason to get them done BF or not. Like the others have said were all on here to help each other whether it be boob related or silly men!!! were all here to offer advice when you need it hun. Go for it x
Thank you girls for taking the time to reply, I really do appreciate it! Had a few tears when I woke up and the horrible thoughts that you have when driving but I got through the day! He has text me tho which I haven’t responded to (although very tempted!) If he really wants me then its going to take more than a text! x
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