How long is it until i can lift after breat englarement & uplift? i have a baby you see!! Started by: janeyh

Hi i had my ba last wed a week today. I have got 2 babies under2, and ive really struggled to be honest this week. The whole situation has been a bit of a nightmare. But i never realised just how much i picked them up during the day untill i couldnt. Its not just lifting them into the highchair, the bath their cot, up the stairs. Its lift their clothes on and off, their legs to change their nappy…. Things that you dont thing require much effort, take a big effort after a ba. My son wanted to watch a dvd thenight i come out of hospital, and i couldnt push the lead into the back of the dvd player! So take it easy. My one son is potty trained, and it was taking all my effort just to pull his trousers up and down. But i have been told that my right implant is sitting on a nerve so im in a lot of pain, where as my left is fine. x x x

Hi Janey h,

I went home. But my mom stayed at mine whilst i was in hospital so that the kids could stay in their own beds and routine etc.. then she stayed with me the first 2 nights thurs and fri. Im not kidding she had to physically push me up out of bed, and she bathed me as well bless, it was like being a child again. Then my partner was off sat and sun. My mom came up just for the day on mon, and for the last 2 days ive done it alone. Just had to wait for my other half to bath them when he got in. My youngest is 12months and she can get herself onto the sofa, but she hasnt learnt to get down backwards. So she just goes off head first, and beccause i cant grab her, ive just been letting her go! lol. How cruel. Your be fine, its not that bad, its just my right implant is resting on a nerve! ithink if that hadnt happened id of delt with it alot easier. x x x