Looking after the kids after my BA…when to book? Started by: A30

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  • A30 1
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    November 5, 2013 at 9:44 pm
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    #692848

    I’m ready to go ahead and book my surgery date, I originally wanted to book my surgery for the beginning of February but Im worried I won’t be able to look after my kids, my daughter is 10 so she will be fine but my little boy is 17months. I’ll be taking a week off work but I’m worried about the times I’m on my own with him when my partner is at work.

    I can’t decide if to wait until next July when it’s the school holidays so my daughter can help me and my little boy will be 2.

    Have any of you got children and how did you cope with looking after then after your BA? And how long before you can pick them up?

    AMc82
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    November 5, 2013 at 9:51 pm
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    I had uplift n implants n I can only just lift my 2 yr old now after 6wks. N can’t carry her for too long. Not sure tho iit prob diff for just BA Hun x

    A30 1
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    November 6, 2013 at 9:51 am
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    #692898

    Hiya, I’m having just a BA…overs, I really want them done in February but just worried about looking after my little boy. X

    A30 1
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    November 6, 2013 at 9:51 am
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    #692899

    Is it ok if I add you? X

    AMc82
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    November 6, 2013 at 9:59 am
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    #692902

    Yeh I accept now Hun. Feel free to private message me. I answer as best I can. I had uplift n 325cc overs x

    A30 1
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    November 6, 2013 at 10:02 am
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    #692903

    Ok thank you. Xx

    smoggs 3
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    November 6, 2013 at 12:20 pm
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    #692920

    Hiya I had my ba on a Sunday and by the Wednesday I was lifting my little girl I’m a single mum I had no option x

    Chanel
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    November 6, 2013 at 1:38 pm
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    #692933

    @smoggs Im goin to be on my own with 2 children how did u find it? Like were u able to bathe them wash their hair straight after? And did u find ironing hoovering ok? x

    A30 1
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    November 6, 2013 at 4:47 pm
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    #692967

    Ok thanks, that’s made me feel better, think ill deffo book my BA for Feb then. X

    smoggs 3
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    November 6, 2013 at 6:44 pm
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    #692990

    I honestly didn’t get any pain until day 4/5 I made sure the house was tidy b4 I went to hospital and got few items of clothing ready for me and my little girl and made sure there was food in the cupboards. My daughter goes to crèche while I’m in work so I just dropped her there and spent the days at home chilling out. Then she went to her dads on the Friday night. I didn’t think about hoovering or anything strenuous- no point really I didn’t have any visitors cos I didn’t tell anyone. Only 2 of my best friends and they wouldn’t care if my house was messy lol. I honestly managed ok she was only 15 months old too. X

    A30 1
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    November 6, 2013 at 8:40 pm
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    #693013

    Ok thanks, my little boy is 18months old and my girl is 10 years old so she will help me out, my little boy will go the child minders in the day, just think I’m worried about lifting him in and out of the car and when they jump on you. I’ll prepare loads before then and get clothes ready for the week and food just to make it easier. X

    Chanel
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    November 6, 2013 at 9:12 pm
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    #693028

    @smoggs yea ive just done that too made sure ive got food in cleaning done night b4 etc to be prepared for first few days and ill get ironing done thanks time will tell how i get on! x

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