People keep putting me offfffffff … Started by: pinkfly7

I booked the op over a year ago now, up until I booked it my boyfriend, and both parents never said it was a bad idea.. I then went ahead and booked it and then it became a problem to all of them (until I got refused for finance).. My dad even told me he would kick me out if I went ahead with it.. all 3 of them thought it was a phase I was going through, and still to this day I want it done.. now at 21 im going ahead with it.. regardless of how they all feel.. we are all doing this for our own personal confidence. don’t listen to others, they don’t fully understand how you feel about your boobs.. if I had the money and could get time off work now I could certainly treat myself to a Christmas pressie of new boobies! xxx

Its soo hard when people dont support you! I had this issue but i stuck to going through with it as its what i wanted!! Dont let people change your mind, im now 1 week 5 days post op and my family have started too come round! My friends are still a bit funny about it but thats probs jealousy!
Do what you feel is right for you hun 🙂 dont let people put you down for doing something that will make you happy 🙂 xx

Do it for yourself!
I didn’t tell anyone accept my husband, who fully supported me. I think people hear the scare stories, esp with the PIP issue recently, and are more scared for you than anything but everything has its risks. Having babies has its risks but you still do it.
As long as youre happy with your decision, then go for it!
A year later its been the best decision I’ve made and my confidence is through the roof! 😉
Good luck. X

I don’t get why people do this :/ A lot of people I know are the same, the thing that makes me laugh is tattoos and peircings are now generally acceptable and in the grand scheme things plastic surgery isn’t all that different to those things. It’s all body modification, the results and motivation are different but in general it’s the same thing. x

Are you having unders or overs? I had overs, which I was told heal quicker as your not disturbing the chest muscle, and I was mucking out horses by day 7.
Day 4 will be sore, very sore, but it will all depend on your individual reaction.
Good luck X

guilt trip about it being close to xmas?! we’re allowed to treat ourselves at xmas aswel as everyone else! xx

yeh exactly they did to me aswel even my ex who tried so hard to stop me an then after id had them he loved them. guys try n stop us coz theyre worried we’re suddenly gonna have this new found confidence and outgrow them n wanna move on lol but its not the case obviously!! an family are just worried i guess!xx

i dont think ur mad lol by day 5 i went to my nans birthday party thing, i felt okay not in pain a lil uncomfy if i missed a painkiller, just couldnt move my arms much n was wary of people bumping into me xx

Hi aysha hope you don’t mind the add it won’t let me private msg you for some reason x

Its your christmas present to yourself all us moms turn into robots for our husbands and our children and its not mad to do something for yourself to make yourself happy. Bet your hubby loves the finished results as well, more boobies to play with lol xx

So it’s not just me who keeps it a secret lol I am trying not to tell too many people I am going to have my boobs done! I don’t like all the negativity and bad thoughts that people try and tell you! At the end of the day it’s true, you only live once! And if it makes us happy then that’s all that matters! It’s nobody else’s business! I am having them done In January and I am really excited but also nervous and part of me is worried what others may think, but I worry too much about other peoples opinion! :-/
I guess we have to be a little bit selfish sometimes and figure out what’s best for us x 🙂
Good luck x

my boyfriend keeps flapping ill leave him but now hes excited do whats best for you if its what you want go for it im having mine either way lol xx