1 week po and feel upset (not because of boobs) Started by: Polina

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    I had my op last friday 385cc partials with Mr Frari. the healing has been ok, I wasnt really in pain. Today was the first day I had to look after my 2 year old on my own. Me and my husband didnt really think this through. I had to feed her (cook something quick and simple) change her and put her down for her nap. im not in pain and I spent most of the day on the couch, but im just so scared im not recoverig or looking after myself as I should and boobs might not heal properly. My husband only helped me really by picking me up from Highgate the day after my op, after that he wasnt really supportive and was always complaining that he has to work and look after our daughter. Well, I somehow do it all the time! he is not that bad, he helped me with paying for my op and does work extra at the weekend, but he is just not very supportive. and he wasnt when I was pregnant. so hopefully I wont ever get seriously ill cause he wont be by my side although he promised to be here in sickness and health. anyway he is back from work now and bathing our daughter after I shouted at himthat she hasnt had a bath for a week now and smells. I just need a hug and to say that everything will be ok and boobs will heal ok.
    sorry girls 🙂 x

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    Polina I’m sorry that you feel like this 🙁 if I could I would give you a great big hug and tell you everything will be okay! I’m guessing it’s just a big shock to him, having to do more than usual but he should have your health in mind before he moans about it or anything like that. Maybe have a word with him and tell him how you feel? Keep smiling 🙂 xxx

    Gemma
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    Awww hun big hugs! Having a breast aug will have changes on your mood, good and bad, I’m sure your husband didn’t realise everything us women do and it has been a bit of a shock for him. My partner hs been good but a little tension has arose at times partly because I feel so helpless and tired. Remember it is not forever and you will soon be back on your feet and doing all the things you are used to doing. Do not get too stressed either as it will affect your healing. Everyday you will become stronger. Have a little chat with him later and tell him how your feeling. Good luck xx

    Polina 1
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    thank you girls, just needed to share with someone 🙂

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