Advice Please :) xx Started by: Kirsty

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  • Kirsty 4
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    Hi
    I have just in the research stage…had my initial consultation at Newcastle on Wednesday and am booked in for a surgeon consultation with Mr Traynor….Have heard good things about him on here so feeling pretty confident about that 🙂
    Do you have any tips on what questions to ask in this consultation please? I’m bound to forget something!
    I have had two children, 20 months and 12 weeks and my boobs are ruined 🙁 Been wanting a BA done for about 10 years just cause I wanted one but now I need one!!! Hoping I will just need the BA and not an uplift! How have those of you with young children managed recovery wise…that’s the main thing putting me off :/ and the cost…i feel so guilty spending this much money when it could be spent on my girls, and the house and probably lots of other stuff but i do think this would really boost my confidence etc…im not a bad mother am i?!
    Also I would say I’m about a 36b/c now…and am hoping to be about a dd….no idea what size implants i’d need but i guess Mr Traynor would advise me on that!
    But yeah, any advice would be appreciated….thank you 🙂 xx

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    hay hunni no your NOT a bad mum at all and DONT LET NO 1 tell u diffrent we spend so much time and money on our kids some time its time for us mummmys to finally get somthing we realy want ive got 3 a 4yr old 2yr old and 1 yr old with them all day every day spend all my money on things for them not stuff they need stuff they want people have sed to me y not go on holiday do my driving lessons ect but i realy want my boobies done its our bodys babe n its wat makes us feel confident and happy not saying the kids dont but times we need to do somthing for ourselfs questions to ask is tricky some surgeons will tell u all u need to no my surgeon is very quiet and dosent speak so u have to ask the questions best to ask things like what size do u think i should have what type of implant what type of procedure liked over or unders like whats the diffrence whats best to suit ur body ect xxxxxx REMBER YOUR NOT A BAD MUMMY XXXXX add me if u like xxxx

    Kirsty 4
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    Thanks hun…that made be feel a bit better! Yep all my money at the min goes on my girls ! I just hope I can lose a dress size before Middle April which is when I’d like my op! Yeah they were the kind of questions I was thinking…! Suppose different people need different sizes and will go different sizes to others with the same size implants. Haven’t got a clue whether to go cui or natrelle….guess that’s another recommendation from the surgeon! Thank u so much for the advice 🙂 have u got yours booked?!or u had one?xx

    Kirsty 4
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    Sorry just seen that u haven’t yet!x

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    mines booked for 21st april babe n yh the choice of implants is another question ur surgeon will advise what the feel is best for you and what they like to work with more the diffrence isnt all that much natrielles have one extra layer they both can ripple they both can rupture the main diffrence is the garentee cui has 10 yrs natrielles have a life time garentee and the price hun xx xx good luck with all ur dession making xx xx

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    I Had Mr Singh in january. Its my 6 week check up today. Ive got two children, 4yrs and 1yr old. My youngest is disabled and im his full time carer. I felt so guilty at first for being selfish going ahead with the op. But its something ive always wanted, and i didnt tell many people, but everyone told me im not a bad mum for doing it, and i certainly dont regret it. It took me around 2 weeks to fully recover and get back to doing everything for my kids again, so i would advise you have help atleast for the first week or two. I had naturelles high profile overs. If you 4get to ask questions at ur consultation, you can always book in to see the surgeon again at any time! Good luck 🙂 xx

    Jayde 1
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    I had mr traynor on wends! I had 385cc moderate /high plus profile and that should take me to a DD ish! Have a look at my piks if u want I have before and after. I was a 32 empty B! He is an amazing surgeon tho he tells u straight no bullshitting! Xx

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    Hey huni don’t feel bad for wanting the op I’ve got 3 kids and my took the last bit of my Breast so I saved up 6,000 in my own time I did feel bad about spending. So much cash on this op but I needed to do this for myself I needed uplift and had natrelle implants I chose these as I got to pick which. Brand I wanted and to me natrelle where a better shape and lot more higher and better to touch. And was good quality then the others and lifetime cover and less risk of rippling and rupture for the sake. Of a few £100 more I wanted the best implants posable and these are very popular my surgon told me my pc said she’s changing her cui to natrelle and most girls do x

    Kirsty 4
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    Thanks girls! Sorry for late reply! And thank you for making me feel better…still it’s a lot of money though…I’m guess I’m always going to have that guilt tho!
    The lifetime guarantee with the naturelles sound better..let’s just hope they are not too much more expensive.
    What did everyone’s mam’s say? I told my mam that I had been for the appointment and she was fine but did say she didn’t want me to do it..think she knows I will though.
    Eeek I’m excited! X

    Jayde 1
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    My mum was really supportive as she knew I wanted it done since I was 16! She came to every appointment with me and even the surgery! She’s looked after me post op too! I’m really lucky she’s been bril! I havnt told my dad or step dad tho! They don’t need to know ha xx

    Kirsty 4
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    I doubt my mam will be supportive and like i say doesnt want me to get them done but there wont be much she can do when/if i get them! from a selfish point of view i need her help with my girls and worried she wont help me babysit for appts etc if she knows thats why! ha ha!
    Ah i guess out more on Monday when I se the consultant but I may be asking more advice after about sizes etc!
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    Laura 13
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    You are not a bad mother at all!!!! Us mums give everything to our kids, its defintly about time I did something for myself. I give my girls everything and they don’t go without so theres no way I feel guilty.

    I have wanted ba for around 10 years and even more so now I have had my kids.

    I am having Mr Traynor in just over 4 weeks. He largest implants he has offered me is 325cc.

    Laura 13
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    Are you seeing Mr Traynor on Monday at Newcastle clinic? I am there on Monday for my pre op.

    Kirsty 4
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    Yeah I’m the same…been about ten years…back then I wanted it just cause (and my boobs were ok then lol) but deffo now!
    What size r u now if u dont mind me asking?ive read so much about different sizes I’m confused….but I guess one size implant can look different on different people.
    I’m size 12 but wanting to get back to a size 10…..I’ll prob b best waiting til I’ve lost the weight?hoping he says losing one dress size shouldn’t affect them!
    I am Hun yeah at 4.15….0what time r u in?x

    Laura 13
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    I have consultation at 3 to make a decision on size as couldnt decide on last consultation. Then having pre op appointment at 3.45

    I am currently a 32/34 AA/A. I am 8 stone 8. 5ft 4. Hoping that 325cc will gove me a C/D

    Kirsty 4
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    So…I saw Mr Traynor last night and basically because I’m not small (a C cup) but very empty I’d need a big implant to fill them possibly making me an F!!! Didn’t really want to go that big!! I was hoping for fullness back and maybe a DD!! I was offered 525cc in CUI or 3 different sizes in Natrelles which I think we’re 605, 585 and 565?! I tried the 2 biggest ones and think actually preferred the 605’s but now wondering if that was me in a little bubble of excited ness and got carried away lol!!
    So I’m wondering…..do I see Mr Mounir to see what he says?! Do I go back to Mr Traynor and ask if I got an uplift could I get a smaller implant (but then worried I’d b too small!!)? I have an appt with Transform at end of the month too so will see what they say!
    Also CUI or Natrelle? I think really my only option so far is Natrelle and they are the bigger ones (I know I said I wasn’t wanting to be an F lol but still….I have more choice there) but they are also more expensive!
    Any further advice would be muchly appreciated 🙂 xx

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    I’ve felt the same as you Hun I’ve been wanting a BA for over 13 years I’ve left it so long I now need an uplift too, I’ve put it off because i have a beautiful little girl that I’ve give the world too if I could. we’ll always be mums but on the other hand I just wish I hadn’t left it so long!! Were also women, who have a right to feel confident and happy with our selfs. We give so much love into our children sometimes we forget to love ourselves! A happy mum is a happy home. Go for it Hun I certainly am after all these years, don’t feel guilty xxx

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