Scared I'm gonna have to cancel op @devastated Started by: Nicole

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  • Nicole 1
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    I’m really scared I’m gonna have to cancel my op for medical reasons.

    I’ve been having lots of breathing problems and near fainting spells, racing heart etc. I’ve had lots of tests and all have come back normal. They keep saying it’s all pointing to anxiety. But it so constant yesterday I couldn’t breathe properly for about 6 hours and kept nearly passing out. Partner rushed me back to docs. Oxygen levels 100 per cent said my chest was clear and blood pressure low but ok. Tried diazepam with spaced me out and perhaps helped marginally.

    Bit better today but just laying on sofa.I feel ok mentally so can’t get round how physical the symptoms are.
    How sad are general anesthetics? The gp cause they think it’s anxiety feel should be ok. Will the anesthetist still go ahead? Am I crazy keep thinking what if I can’t breathe and my heart races and it put too much pressure on it?
    But where do I stand with the money I’ve paid. I can’t lose that money!
    It’s all such a mess and worry
    I don’t know what to do I really want the op but I have two children and scared I’m doing something stupid. That’s if they let me go ahead!
    Any girls medically trained and know how safe and how much a risk a ga is? Anyone offer any advice ? Please …….. So upset x

    Nicole 1
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    Suppose to say how bad not sad are general anesthetics!

    Laura 13
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    It sounds like anxiety because your tests are clear.
    It may be best to speak to ur gp and get ur anxiety under control before having ur procedure.

    Im sure you wont loose ur money and will just be able to change ur surgery date.

    Rinx ♥ 4
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    It won’t affect you being put to sleep but I will say this if you get to the hospital and you are panicking and getting yourself in a right state they will not put you under GA you must try and stay calm! Once your asleep your asleep nothing bad will happen 100% I suffer from it bad and I got real bad coming up to my op! When you get there all you have to say is I’m really scared about being put to sleep can you give me something to calm me down ect and they will xxx

    Nicole 1
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    Thanks Rinx . Just so upset. I feel fine mentally but just these physical symptoms are constant ! If it was panic attacks I could get my head round it or I was feeling depressed or other classic anxiety symptoms but it’s like a 24 hr panic attack so weird and scary!

    Rinx ♥ 4
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    It is really horrible before I started my course I’m on I started feeling dizzy all day my heart would race I just felt so stressed like I was going to faint and that’s all because of this stupid course! Now I’m on it and I realise the course isn’t bad atall I’m fine iv had nothing since ! You must think positive youl be getting lovely boobies at the end of it and once you have been woken up from the GA youl be like omg put be back under was the best sleep ever haha xxx

    Nicole 1
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    Ha ha that made me smile. I had a ga six weeks after my baby girl and when the nurse tried waking me I was thinking no yet I’m enjoying this sleep!

    I guess I have to see how I go and if symptoms improve can’t get out of my head there is something really wrong and ill end up with massive problems during ga.

    My PC is away till next week so have to have a chat and see where I stand. I think there is a big charge to change dates if not under control! 🙁

    Rinx ♥ 4
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    it is totally normal to feel how your feeling though, I don’t think what anyone says or does will change how you feel its just something you have to overcome by yourself, don’t change dates you might then feel even more paranoid about it being moved forward because youl then be waiting even longer! but you will be fine in the end once they are done you will be laughing to yourself xxx

    Nicole 1
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    Oh I hope so!!!

    Just can’t get my head round how I’m feeling physically!
    Gonna speak with nurse later x
    Thanks again

    Jayde 1
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    The GA won’t affect ur anxiety don’t worry! I think u stated on another post that u can’t have beta blockers? R u asthmatic? That would seriously sort u out with ur anxiety lol, discuss with ur GP if there is an alternative than beta blockers. Some people with asthma do take beta blockers I have patients who do! U just need to be assessed! As it cause a wheezing xx

    Charley
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    Hi chick I had the exact systems. I had anxiety disorder where you struggle for breath and either pass out or have tingling in fingers. Its a subconscious problem, I was not depressed or anything but it could be you worrying about the procedure just talk 2 your PC but it does go away x

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    I had problems with anxiety for years hun had the exact symptoms as you, feels like a heart attack but it’s adrenaline which causes the fight or flight response which is why your heart races. You will be fine it’s usually caused by stress and I’d say worrying about the operation xxx

    Nicole 1
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    Thanks girls for your words they really help…..

    I get the anxiety issues but it’s just that the symptoms are constant and not like a panic attack…just can’t breathe all day long,
    I understand that anxiety won’t affect a ga but I suppose what I am scared about is that they have missed a problem and then the ga will affect that! But then I suppose that’s classic anxiety….Aah!

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    Are you asthmatic and have they checked for it? Dyou mean your breathing is shallow or wheezy?
    Anxiety attacks do actually cause breathing to become uncontrolled so it could be that but if you’re asthmatic you need an inhaler xx

    Nicole 1
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    I have mild asthma but it’s not that. I’ve tried inhalers but don’t make any difference. Breathing is more shallow like I can’t get enough breath. Or not getting enough oxygen in but my O2 saturation a are 100 per cent. I’m speaking like I’ve just run a mile. But exertion doesn’t actually make it worse. In fact I think most of the time it helps a tiny bit?
    I saw a locum gp yesterday who just looked at me and said I dont know what do u want me to do?

    Rinx ♥ 4
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    Inhaler wont help it will make it worse, it may seem like its your asthma but its not, the I inhaler will make your heart rrate faster which will cause you to panic more xx

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    Hey Hun, I suffered with anxiety years ago when I was getting married. Beta blockers didn’t help, diazepam took the edge off but the best thing that helped me was breathing exercises, cos shallow breathing is the worst thing for anxiety and makes it spiral out of control, and your adrenaline is so pumped! It was all stress related and as soon as I got to grips with why I had the symptoms and how to control them they eventually faded away. There is nothing worse and all common sense goes out the window and you just worry about everything. Just remember you’ve been checked out and you will be in the hands of professionals….. And great boobs at the end!! Hope this helps. Xx

    Nicole 1
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    Yep Rinx found that out yesterday just before I went to parents evening! God knows what the teachers thought me sitting there huffing and puffing completely oblivious to what they were saying !

    Nicole 1
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    Thanks Alexandra. I try to focus on my breathing but that seems to make it worse by focusing and thinking about it. What exercises did you do?

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    Really deep breathing, there’s a few exercises perhaps try googling it. One was deeply breathe in through nose fully whilst your belly raises and exhale fully through mouth while belly deflates. 10 times. It should make you feel a bit calmer too and distract you from worrying.xx

    candybabey 3
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    It is normal to have last minute nerves but if you are experiencing difficulty breathing etc it is anxiety but you will need to overcome this pretty soon as the more you show and express that you feel like this they will think you are not mentally ready for this even tho there is no phsiqcal evidence to show you have a medical problem
    Mentally you have to be confident and I think once you overcome this you will not have these anxiety problems. Try not to panick of anything you will really enjoy the experience honestly you will be fine once you fall asleep you wake up and it’s all done as rinx says only you can overcome this but best of. Luck x

    Nicole 1
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    Thanks Candybabey.

    i think i have just had so much go on in the last six months all the worry is coming out physically. but the op is something ive wanted for ten years and i changed my mind ten years ago so maybe it is worrying me more than i realise.
    I think when you have kids and are effectively paying someone to put you out and butcher you so to speak it does play with your emotions.
    But i want it done so….
    Had good chat with nurse and apparently surgeon and anesthestic have seen all medical notes bloods tests etc and they are happy so hopefully they wouldnt take any unnecessary risks.
    thinking positive to have a great bikini body this year!

    Nicole 1
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    oh i spoke with nurse and we are going see how i go in next week and go from there…really dont want to postpone or cancel x

    amber
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    Are you sure your not over thinking on it hun??
    I get this sometime been to docs and everything is fine with me, its simply just me other thinking and concentrating on my breathing waiting for something to happen..
    So now i dont think about it and im fine. No meds no inhalers of the docs jus me taking control of it.. i think its down to you over thinking , if the doctors are saying i dont know what you want me to do??

    xxx

    Nicole 1
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    Maybe Amber? It’s just it can go on for hours and hours, all day then it clears a bit. It’s very odd! But when it’s happening it’s so debilitating it’s hard to ignore ?

    amber
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    I think you are just thinking on it hun and making it worse… i suffered from this a lot but now im controlling it alot better… it may be anxiety but im not going to docs about it cos i dont wanna be on anxiety tablets the rest of my life , so im controlling it my own way…. what do you feel like when it starts to come on?
    xx

    Nicole 1
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    I can be laying in bed and I’m breathing fine. I stand up and go downstairs and I’m then struggling for breath. The weird thing is if I’m laying down and resting back I seem to breath fine which if it was a lung problem laying usually makes it worse. I’ve just been on a long walk with a friend who is medically trained and I was ok. Got home and feel breathless again as if I’m breathing through a pillow. Baffling. But I suppose if it is stress manifesting itself physically it’s going to be odd symptoms. 🙁
    Just trying to do relaxing things etc and distressing and resting.

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