unhappy family Started by: natalie

my family were exactly the same! they were a pain in my arse ha! iv always wanted mine done n they know I have but they always said I didn’t need it done,n that something could go wrong to try n put me off. iv always worn loads of padding in my bra tho so they always thought I was bigger than what I was. I had to drag my mam to 1 of the consultations with me n when I took my bra off she actually got a shock at how small I was so then she started to understand! u need to do what’s right for urself and don’t let people put u off! I had mine done this morning and I’m over the moon Iv finally done it I already feel better myself already even tho the are swelled and not that good of a shape. but of u want it done that much go for it! good luck x

Ignore them or better still don’t tell them lol in your case they already know all you can do is ignore them and if it’s something you really want nothing will change that. X

I was in the exact same boat as you at first.. the only person who agreed with me was my sister because her boobs are so small too! I booked my consultation told them and a big argument happened! I told them I’m having it done no matter what and they can rather support me or not! I went on about family support and me never getting none, got really upset about it and sounds childish but ignored them for a few days haha! Mum then came back to me and said she’ll stand by me no matter what I doo.. My dad still doesn’t agree but Iv gone ahead and now everything’s booked! I actually got offered a date on my dad’s birthday in May but turned it down because he probs would of thought I did it on suppose hahaha! It’s booked for the week after and he’s kinda coming round to it as he has no choice.. Good look though xx

My then boyfriend was against me having them done. The lead up to my op was pretty stressful as he put a bit of pressure on me (controlling really!) anyway we split and he’s now devastated that I have fabulous boobs he’ll never get to touch ha!! You know what’s best for you and remember all the supportive people on here who know exactly how you feel Hun xx

I am having mine done Sunday , the only people who know is my husband and my daughter !!!!

Men react that way for all sorts of reasons but I agree it’s mostly from insecurity! It’s the worst time for them to behave in such a way as you desperately want reassurance. It’s so difficult but just focus on the reasons why. I have never regretted my op for one moment, just wish I’d done it sooner, had a text off my ex before saying I looked amazing when I walked past him at work…had to stop myself from texting back ‘in your face!!’ Haha!! xx

My family and boyfriend are exactly the same, so much that I was booked in and cancelled. A few months have passed now and I have come to the decision I need to do what’s best for me and my self esteem. I’m sure they are just looking out for us x

Be empowered girls! Go for it! xx

Go for it babe, my family are the same and i have 4 sisters who i know would love to have it done butreally slate me for doing ith, my dad was a little uset with me too and my friends are quite bitter about it all to so not really many ppl to talk about my expereance to. But i know that i made the right decision for myself and if the dont like it thats there prob not mine 🙂 u wont regret it xxx