How to get hubby/boyfriends full support for implants… Started by: QueenC

My boyfriend was completely against my boobies but once Ide sat him down to explain why I needed this he put his opinions to one side to support me! If he doesn’t like fake boobies then it’s the same as my bf and you can’t change that but making him understand the reasons for you wanting your boob job and show that you’ve done the research he should accept it and support you! I couldn’t have done this without my boyfriend he did everything for me after my op an was amazing! I’ve only just recently found out one of the reasons he didn’t want me to get them done was because he thought Ide be getting them out for other guys and it was to get a better guy! This only came out yesterday and I’m 3 weeks post op, just reassure him that that’s not the reason. Whether he will admit it or not that does cross their mind! Xxx

Danielle, that is sad… He’s an idiot! And you definitely deserve better. There’s a saying where I come from”a true friend is recognised by your time of need”. Boyfriends come and go, yourself is who you have to live with and be happy within. Be happy and good luck with the op!

Aww bless you. Has he said why he doesnt support your decision? It’s your body afterall! xxx

Good luck. Yes, we have two kids together and have been together 15 years! I think he thought I would change my mind but is slowly realising I’m not going to. Maybe if men’s body changed due to having kids they’d understand more lol. Only time will tell x

what is it with men they need a hard slap in the face sometimes!! my fella wouldnt pay for mine for 8 years nor agree to it, he finally agreed to it and after many rows about it paid the balance. but the weirdest thing from the minute he drove me to highgate he was an angel to me, looked after me and the kids ect took a week off work, hes been amazing tbf! and he said to see me sooo happy he wish he done it years ago for me! we havent had a single row since….crazy ay! so sorry to hear some men are being complete pricks about it! xx

Iv wanted a BA for years and when I was with my sons dad he was really against it, he said he didn’t like fake boobs and that I was fine as I am we argued over it all the time and in the end I gave up trying to convince him. We’ve been separated 2 years now and since iv no one to stop me iv decided to finally get the boobies iv always wanted 🙂 I told my ex as he will be having our son while I’m away and he has finally admitted that the real reason he didn’t want me to have my BA, it was because he was scared I would get attention off other men and run away with someone else. I think a lot of men are insecure and instantly think were getting boobies to get that attention rather than to just feel confident in our own skin. Xx

I think the way to “sell” this is to say he’ll get the benefits most of anyone! It’s a win-win situation. And if he’s trying to control your life so much, because of his own insecurities -is he really good for you?! My husband can’t wait LoL and he said to listen to the doctor and go the biggest he offers:)))

Hi Girls
This may help! http://www.mya.co.uk/cosmetic-surgery-news/the-parent-partner-guide/ its the parent and partner guide on cosmetic surgery news.

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