Daddies girl :-( Started by: Kirsty

Hi Hun,

I’m the same I’ve asked my mum to tell my dad for me to give him
Chance to come round to the idea xx

Hi 🙂 I haven’t had a dad in my life but I can imagine what your going through I’d probably be the same! All my family know & friends, even work colleagues! I’m too excited to not tell people haha but I haven’t and still don’t think I’m going to tell my fellas mum and dad 🙁 and we live with them! I just don’t think it’s their business as they know everything else going on in my life, bloody annoys me! Lol I’m sure your dad will be okay, text him lol that way you don’t have to face him and gives him time to think about it! X

I’m 10 weeks post op and still haven’t told my dad or my sister. Only my mum and some close friends know xx

Hi I’m 27 3 kids and have rang my dad 3 times with the intention of telling him but still haven’t done it :/ so I can totally sympathise with you.

I’m going to have to tell him tho my sisters seem to think he won’t notice pmfsl but I’m very sure he will do :/

I’ve not told my Dad yet & I’m 4 weeks post op Friday! xxxxx

i’m 20 & my op is tuesday, I also haven’t told my dad or my childminder (equally as important but all my other family knows including my nan and grandad’s etc). I have 2 girls and also like you have been worrying like mad about telling him. I’m gonna tell him on Monday and going to say I have found it difficult to tell him as I didn’t know what his reaction would be, I am going to tell him that I booked it 8 weeks ago, that it’s my choice and not to worry. (I don’t think he will question it tbh so don’t need to go in to detail) i’m just worried that he’s disappointed or afterwards when people who don’t know ask him and he get’s embarrassed or if it effects him in anyway.. I wasn’t going to tell him at all or my childminder (but they will realize and it is totally 100% better coming from me rather than one of my nosy family members or friends. good luck hun xx

Ahhh I. Pretty sure if you just told him how unhappy with yourself you are then he’d encourage you. Dads only want us to be happy. I lost my dad four years ago now, I know he’d of gone mental an probs marched to Preston if I’d of done it behind his back (regardless of my age) however my mum and stepdads have been mega supportive as they know how much it means to me. They’ve actually paid for it for me I’ll be forever grateful! If you can’t find the words maybe a txt or get another family member to tell him for you, he might be mad or disappointed at first. It doesn’t last 😉 good luck girls on your boobie birthdays! I won’t be far behind xxx

Exactly! I’m in the same boat as you tbh boob wise! Use to have a good set! N now it’s like someone’s deflated them 🙁 tiny boobs! There just so empty now it’s unreal! I need these implants ASAP! Xx

Just do what you feel comfortable with hun. I was scared to tell my dad as i felt i was letting him down or being selfish now I’m a mom. However he was suprisingly fine and even dropped cheesy dad jokes how my boyfriend wouldn’t buy me a puppy but was happy to buy me two ‘puppies’ cringe lol. Just had to reassure him I wouldn’t come home looking like a blow up doll and was doing it for my own reasons. Xx