Omg what is wrong with men!!! Started by: Liz

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  • Liz
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    May 11, 2014 at 12:43 am
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    Sorry girls just feel I need to vent myself somewhere, so as I wrote on an earlier topic I had my boobs measured today and was measured at a 30E. So me and the mr have just had a full blown row over them, and what he doesn’t want to grasp or listen to is that ok an E may sound huge but because the backsize is so small infact the cup isn’t much bigger than a D cup which I was currently wearing a 34D before being measured today. I am so aggravated. He didn’t want me to have them done in first place but supported me still, was worried they were gonna b huge. 8 weeks later and he hasn’t had a problem with the size until hearing this. Why is he focusing so much on size bra compared to what they look like, not like I’m walking round with a bill board saying I’m a E cup bra lol I’m just walking round with what look like a normal pair of boobs should look like on a woman my size. MEN! X

    laweeza
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    May 11, 2014 at 1:15 am
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    I think its just their insecurity coming into play x

    sian Ashleigh 1
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    May 11, 2014 at 9:18 am
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    Ugh men are idiots. Seriosuly, why wont he understand that u are the same size technically that yu were the day before, its just now your bra fits you!! its not like other guys will be more attracted to your E cup boobs to your D cup boobs lol Hope he calms down soon 😛 x

    Nicole 1
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    May 11, 2014 at 9:20 am
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    Mind you I think we all fixate on cup size on here I’m like I’ve achieves a dd yeah woohoo even if I don’t actually look that much bigger in clothes than I did before!…so he will come round…cut the labels out lol or tell him if he don’t like them he can’t touch….he will soon come round!

    Liz
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    May 11, 2014 at 6:56 pm
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    Haha, ino right, sometimes there is just no talking to him, I took myself off to bed and by the time he came to bed he was ok. Nicole I did debate this, not letting him touch and thought he may of also tried be funny and not touch cos that’s what he’s like but he was normal so I gave in lol x

    siobhan
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    May 11, 2014 at 8:04 pm
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    http://m.wikihow.com/Measure-Your-Bra-Size

    Show him this, it explains sister sizes. If that doesn’t work you could always ask him if he’d like you to gain lots of weight in order to make your back size bigger and cup size smaller xx

    Liz
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    May 11, 2014 at 8:11 pm
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    Hi Siobhan, I tried this lol he did not want to listen lol, think I’m now just going to avoid the subject hoping he has had he’s hissy fit and over it lol x

    siobhan
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    May 11, 2014 at 8:21 pm
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    Like most men he probably realised he was wrong but didn’t want to admit so is dropping it instead haha xx

    Liz
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    May 11, 2014 at 9:37 pm
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    Hahaha sounds about right x

    Julie Dawes
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    May 12, 2014 at 9:01 am
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    Ha ha my boyfriend is delighted!i have no idea what size I am other than they are massive! Lol xxx

    Anonymous
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    May 12, 2014 at 9:22 am
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    Omg males my bloke wouldn’t go near them for a week didn’t even want to see them so I confronted him about it told him I wanted an honest answer his reply ” well I didn’t want to go man there nice as I didn’t want you to think there was nothing wrong with you before hand so that’s why I haven’t done or said anything ” . Sounds silly but I can see where he was coming from that he didn’t want me to feel as I wasn’t good enough pre op so perhaps take that into consideration as it might be a factor to some girls partners

    Julie Dawes
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    May 12, 2014 at 9:25 am
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    Actually Lisa my bf did say a similar thing initially but 3 months post op it’s all forgotten about and it’s as if I always had them xxx

    Nicole 1
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    May 12, 2014 at 10:15 am
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    And looking fabulous Julie!

    Stephanie 1
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    May 12, 2014 at 10:21 am
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    My boyfriend has no issue with me getting mine so much so he’s paying. The only worry I think he has is them looking too big. But I think once I’ve had them done I’m sure he be getting his money worth out of them!

    Stephanie 1
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    May 12, 2014 at 10:22 am
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    Can I add you Julie Dawes they look fab on profile
    Pic. X

    Jamie Leanne 4
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    May 12, 2014 at 11:29 am
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    My boyfriend was horrible Saturday night! We was at a small gathering drinking at someone’s house and infront of everyone he said my boobs are horrible, there disgusting he doesn’t like them and natural ones are wayyyyyy better! I didn’t want to make a scene but I had to get up and leave! I knew he didn’t agree with them and didn’t like them but never in a million years did I think he would embarrass me in such a way! Xx

    Nicole 1
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    May 12, 2014 at 12:20 pm
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    ah jamie….he is obviously battling with it in his head for some reason…as he was so supportive to you during your recovery even though he didn’t want u to get them done…..think his behaviour is appalling but maybe it’s as much of an emotional roller coaster for some bfs as it is for us?.?

    Julie Dawes
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    May 12, 2014 at 5:46 pm
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    Thanks for compliments girls and Jamie Leanne I think your boobs are gorgeous and someone is a teensy bit jel xxxx

    Liz
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    May 12, 2014 at 6:59 pm
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    Oh Jamie that is awful, my bf did try burst my bubble abit to a week or two ago, he said all I went on about was them and I said yeah but they nice though and he was like huh they alright in a funny way, I dunno y they do that, can only guess insecurity, and making us feel not so good makes them feel a little more adequate in thre heads x

    Jamie Leanne 4
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    May 13, 2014 at 10:17 am
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    I felt so rubbish, he was amazing through my recovery I couldn’t fault him I couldn’t have done it without him. He’s just so insensitive when he starts to drink. I had people looking at me as if I’ve had a bad boob job (I had them covered that night) and he doesn’t want me to show anyone which I respect but he can’t go round telling people there horrible. I am over the moon with my boobs and feel a million times better. Yeah I hope he just gets used to them and stops with the horrible comments. Thankyou Julie, I’m so happy with how natural they look! I think they do get insecure when we come out with fab boobs and so much more confidence but they don’t seem to go the right way about it do they xx

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