Is it normal to wonder if this what you want? Started by: poppieclarke

It’s 100% normal Hun, I’ve thought exactly the same, although just like you I’ve wanted it done since I was 14, I’ve come so close so many times, and then pulled out, but this time it’s all fully paid and I’m having it done on June 1st. I’ve read a few other girls have also had 2nd thoughts even up until the night before having it done, I have 4 kids so feel especially guilty when I think of what the money could have brought for them, just remember it’s something you’ve always wanted and you’ll have a pair of boobs to be proud of for the rest of your life x

This is exactly me right now!!! All paid for and my op is 5days and I’m thinkin shitttt is this really what i want? I actually don’t know 100% I wouldn’t even b too bothered about the money (it’s only money at the end of the day) just really confused a the min 🙁 xx

I was same, always wanted it and knew exactly what the surgery involved but once was booked I question what am I actually doin? All I kept thinking was I am putting things into my body that aren’t ment to be there. I aired my opinion to my mum and nan and they re assured me it was normal to feel anxious. I knew I would still have procedure just had all these thoughts. I am 9 weeks po today 😀 it’s gone so quick and it’s great! As for money with kids, I have two, it isn’t selfish, think of how much money u spend on your children, I never buy anything for myself always the kids, this is the one thing I done for me, and now we back to normal, everything for kids, as long as they don’t suffer going without essentials they need then what does it matter. I am sure your children are well looked after and still will be with you spending money on yourself also x oh and as for re op, don’t worry yourself with that until time comes, my mum had a ba years ago, maybe coming on 10 years, hers are still ok and she has no plans for changing them any time soon if at all, she also had those pips, but has had no problems so has left them and just has checks x

If you swamp yourself in material, anyone will look fat, boobs or none. We all have learnt to dress for our bodies now, we just have to learn to dress for our new bods 😉 Everyone has second thoughts, it’s a big deal! And it’s not selfish at all hun, it’s not fair of others to say so either. If it’s what you want go for it! Nobody who hasn’t been through something similar won’t understand, ignore the bad comments! xxx