So nervous Started by: Abbie

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  • Abbie
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    June 16, 2014 at 10:31 am
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    Omg I’m so scared about having ba and not being able to look after my little boy who will be 18 months when I have the op… It’s booked for 22nd July. I’m just really worried about everyday things like getting him in and out of his cot

    Anonymous
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    June 16, 2014 at 10:43 am
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    U wont be able to hun. U will need some help. I lifted my 15 month old daughter day 1 & it killed i had 2 put her straight down. My partner went out that night & i had to get the girls round incase my little girl woke up as i knew i wouldn’t be able to see to her. Day 3 is probably the worst but after that it gets easier every day! I’m 17days PO now & carry my little girl all over. I know i shouldn’t but i put all the weight into my legs as that’s what the nurse told me to do while lifting her up & putting her down. Its horrible knowing there’s nothing u can do for them but its only for a couple of days/weeks. Xx

    Abbie
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    June 16, 2014 at 10:51 am
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    I’ve got help the 1st week but then it’s down to me… I feel so selfish doing this

    Abbie
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    June 16, 2014 at 10:51 am
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    I’ve got help the 1st week but then it’s down to me… I feel so selfish doing this

    Abbie
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    June 16, 2014 at 10:52 am
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    I’ve got help the 1st week but then it’s down to me… I feel so selfish doing this

    Jemma
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    June 16, 2014 at 11:12 am
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    I felt like this too luv but then really when do us mums put ourselves first? I always put everyone else’s needs before me so I think one thing isn’t really that selfish 🙂 xxx

    Anonymous
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    June 16, 2014 at 11:17 am
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    I felt the same. Was terrified incase something happened but all went well. Felt awful spending that amount of money aswel but my little girl never goes without & i thought if its going to make me happy she’ll be alot happier seeing me happy. If that makes sense lol xx

    Abbie
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    June 16, 2014 at 11:24 am
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    Yea I know what u mean this is something I’ve want done for years and my dad has given me the money to do it but I just feel bad on my son as I won’t be able to do much for him

    Kathleen Kenny
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    June 17, 2014 at 9:45 am
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    Everyone is right you can’t do anything I have a 15 month old boy and he has had to go stay at his Nans as I just can’t move my arks hurt to move up and down my boobs are sure I can’t stand up straight some days this is my second ba op and I’m finding this one harder then the first you really need to take it easy and not push yourself over wise you will course damage to yourself and end up back in hospital x
    Your not selfish you are doing something for you I bet you do loads for others it’s your time to be happy with your self and feel how you wanna feel the healing process is gonna take time but best things come to those who wait xxx good luck keep us all posted x

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