Friend requests!!! Started by: Freya

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  • Freya 70
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    February 1, 2015 at 5:22 pm
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    #809810
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    This topic has been up so many times before but here goes again…
    I think its just plain rude to friend request someone without a message of some sort. We have really personal pictures up on here and I WILL NOT add people without being asked before hand!
    Sorry for the rant I’ve just had so many requests on here and Instagram recently and it’s really winding me up!!!

    Kayleigh 36
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    February 1, 2015 at 6:18 pm
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    #809830

    Same here. It’s gets to me soo much. But they still just do it.

    Kristina (@kikij87) 167
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    February 1, 2015 at 6:23 pm
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    We should just bump this post up every day so everyone reads it! I agree, it’s so annoying and rude!!!

    Jodie 6
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    February 1, 2015 at 6:47 pm
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    Im new on here, looking to hopefully get my ba done in march so not quite decided on size or profile yet, how do you message soneone before you add them? X

    Kristina (@kikij87) 167
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    February 1, 2015 at 7:16 pm
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    @jlmxo Hey hun, when you click on someone’s profile there is an option of “public message” so you can do it there or on a post you comment on xxx

    Jodie 6
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    February 1, 2015 at 7:44 pm
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    Brilliant thank you xx

    Elle 2
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    February 2, 2015 at 12:35 am
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    So glad you posted this, I’m new to this forum and I keep forgetting to message people before I add them! Really sorry to anyone I’ve added without messaging first, didn’t mean to be rude xx

    Harriet 16
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    February 2, 2015 at 9:01 am
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    #810032

    Well said babe!! I won’t accept anyone who hasn’t got the decency to send a quick polite message!! Xx

    Kristina (@kikij87) 167
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    February 12, 2015 at 5:57 pm
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    #813988

    Bump!!

    Trace 158
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    February 12, 2015 at 6:16 pm
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    Agreed!

    I do add people who I’ve seen around the forums, but if there’s absolutely no activity then it’s an instant reject! x

    Harriet 16
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    February 12, 2015 at 7:06 pm
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    Well said Hunny im beyond sick of the rudeness!! It takes seconds to send a polite message, these are incredibly personal sensitive pictures us girls are putting up, do not expect us to accept you with no picture/activity or even a quick message!! Well said Freya hun! Xx

    Haha just realised I’ve put this a few messages up… Just prove how much it annoys me!

    Tashie 18
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    February 12, 2015 at 7:22 pm
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    Sorry I’m a bit new to all of this so I’m sorry if I have added people without messaging first! I didn’t realise you could message first so I will do that from now on! x

    Becky 27
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    February 12, 2015 at 7:28 pm
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    I’ve done this a couple of times, I’m sorry if I’ve caused any offence or upset anyone it wasn’t my intention. I hope I can be forgiven, sorry x

    Anonymous
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    February 12, 2015 at 8:56 pm
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    Me too I just click away, sorry if I’ve done it xx

    Anonymous
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    February 12, 2015 at 9:06 pm
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    I dont mind post op girls adding me without a msg or anything.. pre op girls with no activity i prefer a little hello or whatever.. i think its only right could be anyone at the end of the day x

    Danni 14
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    February 12, 2015 at 9:11 pm
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    This made me giggle lol, I keep having messages and requests off people from ‘the press’ who want to follow my BA journey HAHA…. no thank you, go away!!! I am guilty of adding people when I see they have similar stats to me to see what their boobs look like lmao (the sounds so wrong!!!!) I am booked in for 26th feb and still worried about the size I have chosen so just want to see whats happened with other people with same stats and similar implant sizes to me.
    I am also new to this but starting to work out how we use MYA space, wish I had made an account months ago when I first booked my surgery!!! Xx

    sarah 15
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    February 13, 2015 at 5:06 pm
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    BUMP

    sarah 15
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    February 13, 2015 at 5:08 pm
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    i totally agree with this i have a lot of requests with no contact and it doesnt hurt to just have a quick message 🙂 x

    Jasmine 10
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    February 13, 2015 at 5:25 pm
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    #814494

    Totally agree with this. I have so many fr request and even as I have logged in now I have two extra but not one of them has messaged me. I have personal pics so I wont be adding anyone without a message. xx

    Becky 27
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    February 13, 2015 at 5:32 pm
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    I totally agree and understand where your all coming from, but I feel that when your new to the forum you don’t fully understand what its all about and don’t know you have personal pictures on? So this post defiantly helps people understand and hopefully it will stop for you ladies :)x

    Jennifer 90
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    February 13, 2015 at 10:25 pm
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    Oops I’ve added a couple without msging I think…..sorry girls, only joined today, very new and clueless to it all & didn’t even think …xx

    Amy 265
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    February 14, 2015 at 3:47 pm
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    Bumping this back up. A simple hi can I add you would be nice.
    I don’t mind any post or pre op girls looking but a bit of courtesy just so I know your not some pervy bloke x

    Anonymous
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    February 14, 2015 at 6:29 pm
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    Sorry, I’m guilty of this, but also new to this site…thanks for the heads up, will know for future

    Nicola 12
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    February 14, 2015 at 8:10 pm
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    #814943

    Me to ive had a few request recently with no messages. Bump x

    Jasmine 10
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    February 27, 2015 at 7:20 pm
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    #820072

    Bumping this up, everytime I log on I have more requests and no messages . Its plain rude and I am just going to keep rejecting people who don’t have the decency to message.

    Chloe 2
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    February 27, 2015 at 8:43 pm
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    #820100

    Girls I’m sorry if I have added anyone without messaging first. I’m new to Mya and only just joined two days ago so still getting the hang of it. My apologies girls!! xx

    Nina 48
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    February 27, 2015 at 9:57 pm
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    #820124

    Chloe don’t worry. I accepted your request no probs 😉 xx

    Hayley 40
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    March 5, 2015 at 9:13 am
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    #821788

    Had 5 requests this morning. And only one message. I have no problem with girls adding me but it is polite to ask first. So many girls including myself have private pictures on here! So many adds from very little activity to! We’ve all done it when we were new to this forum. But please send a little message before if you are pre op and have little activity. Don’t mind post op with activity. Don’t want to sound rude and really would like to share my journey with other girls to help them 🙂 Thanks ladies xx

    Kim 1
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    March 5, 2015 at 6:16 pm
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    Sorry I’m a bit new to all of this so I’m sorry if I have added people without messaging first! I didn’t realise you could message first so I will do that from now on too. I do appreciate the adds tho. Xxx

    Jasmine 10
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    March 19, 2015 at 5:33 pm
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    #827587

    Bumping this up, everytime I log on I have new requests ans no messages, im no longer adding anyone this is so annoying xx

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