:-( feel like my breasts are too small :-( Started by: Tracy
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Hi all sorry to moan but I’m feeling quite down today about my ba. I had 350cc unders on Wednesday and I’m starting to think they are too small!! When I take my Macom off they look an ok size from the side, but from the front I don’t think they look that big, obviously a lot better than they did before just not as big as I expected I think. And when I’ve got clothes on they just look like I’ve got my normal padded bra on that I used to wear before surgery. My partner and mother says they look the perfect size and they would look silly if they were any bigger but I’m not too sure. I know they have to drop and fluff out but I really can’t see them getting much bigger! Has anyone else felt like this? It’s really got me down today 🙁
Hi Tracey, if you only had them Wednesday they’re still going to look quite small head on as they initially swell outwards which is why they look big from the side.
As you heal they’ll fill out more and wont be as projected, also since you had unders they can take weeks to get bigger, there is a girl on here called Kimbawee I think who did a post about dropping and fluffling and she had unders, you could see a massive difference!
It does just take time, im sure they’ll look nice and big soon enough 🙂
Thanks @rosa just got a bit overwhelmed today I think, panicking that they were too small lol. I’ve read posts before about fluffing out and kept saying to myself before I had it done don’t worry they will go bigger after time but now I’m just all over the place lol. I’m terrible I’ve got no patience 🙁 haha xx
@joannaknight it’s terrible isn’t it!! My surgeon said it will take me to a d but I’m not too sure you know. I think I just want them a lot bigger. I don’t want overly massive boobs but I at least want them big enough that they are noticeable lol. I am really hoping they fluff out and get much bigger otherwise I will be definatly be asking for them to be bigger ha! Xx
Bless you Hun, please don’t feel too down about it as they will change! Have a look at my pics, the difference between a few days post op and 6 weeks post op is crazy. They’ve got much bigger and closer together as they’ve softened but they still have a long way to go. I think all the swelling gives us a false sense of size to start with xxx
You still have a long way to go hun yiu didn’t have your op that long ago unders drop and fluff and get bigger! I had 500cc mod + unders from a 28 AA and at a week post op with swelling still I was a 30E brought a shock absorber within a week and a half it was too small went and got measured again when I had chance had gone to a 28 f and by the time I got to 5 and a half weeks I had gone to a 28G I only asked to be a dd try not to worry even though I did as at first they looked so tiny but they will change every day xx
i felt like this, then felt fine, then felt like this, then fine, then toguth they were too big, then fine..
its a roller coaster! I had 350 and I understnd what you mean from the front and mine do look like my padded bras, people have said I dont look any different.
I feel 2 ways when they say it : 1) yes but these are mine, just my boobs, no pading, shaping or underwire just my boobs OR 2) I should have gone bigger.the grass is ALWAYS greener! I am 99% of the time in love with mine! it’s remembering what you had and not been greedy. and im sure they really suit you. Yes i could have gone bigger but i didnt want stretch marks or rippling or a fake look… and who knows when this would have happened.
the boobs i (and you) have now are perfect, natural and proportionate and although they could be bigger, we also know they could be a lot smaller.
be thankful and enjoy your body.
dont compare and dont wish, appreciate instead!
xxxThanks girls trying to keep positive I know it’s early days. Just don’t want to think I’ve wasted all this money on boobs I’m not happy with. Hopefully they will get bigger though I’ll just see what they are like in another few weeks 🙂 xxx
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0pThis is gunna sound really crazy but i feel the same i had 800cc partials and they obviously look alot bigger but i dont think they look as big as i wanted them to look without a bra on the look huge but with the bra and clothes on it just looks like i have my padded bra on x i cant wait for them to drop and fluff
@christine i know exactly what you mean. We have this image in our head of how big we want them to look and when they don’t come out looking like that we start to panic. Everyone I’ve spoke to just says wait till the drop and fluff out so just going to try and think about that but atm I want them to be a lot more noticeable in clothes as well as out of clothes. People say oh but they they are in proportion with your body but to be honest I don’t care about that now I wanted a boob job for the simple reason of having big boobs. I’m just going to see how they turn out though instead of panicking to soon haha. I’m just stressing myself out lol xx
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2pI had 800 I feel same as Christine! In clothes they look to me not as big as I thought but naked they look Huge! they also look huge compared to my first 3 weeks they’ve not gotten bigger but they’ve fluffed out and settled so are more on the bottom half now, still with fullness at the top but I thought they were small for like 3 weeks! They’re tight and the skin is tight and tissues are stretched they need to settle and loossen xxx
@brunette800 it’s crazy isn’t it!! I mean it’s not like we can walk around naked all the time just to show off how big they really are lol. I want them to look big in clothes too. Obviously I haven’t wore a bra and nice top yet so I will just see how that goes but I was just saying to my partner if they still don’t look that big in a few months then I will definatly be going back and asking for them to be bigger, there is no point in paying so much if I’m not happy with them!! Sorry for being a bit of a moaner at the moment. I think I’ve got boob greed and boob depression :-/ hahaha xxx
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2pYes it’s understandable trace, but you’ll definitely see changes that you’ll be happy with, and some ladies do get boobie greed and it stays even when settled, but I believe wearing any bra now, and wearing no bra, they look bigger/rounder with no bra lol , on holidays it’s fab because I don’t know about you but I wear clothes that look better with no bra, I’m not getting overly obsessed with how they look in clothes and in bras because I know how big they are naked 🙂 so just try relax until they settle I think you’ll love them, just the same as so many people on here xxx
Thanks @brunette800 I’m actually feeling a bit better today about it. I’ve been taking pictures everyday so I’ve just had a look at them and they have changed already lol. They are starting to look big from the front now. I suppose it’s just a waiting game. Thanks for your kind words 🙂 xxx
@tracylou23 everyone seems to go through this phase and it will pass! I had my BA on the 24th april and wasn’t happy for over a week after! I was annoyed at myself for not pushing for bigger, annoyed that they weren’t right. But since I’ve been comparing before and after pictures and progress photos and this helps! Don’t compare yourself to anyone else. Use your own progress pictures and your can see your own progress and the difference 🙂 I’m sure you’ll love them once they settle. I’m still getting used to mine xx
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