second thoughts.. Started by: mads
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hey girls, i am seriously having second thoughts.. my op is booked for 14th July with mr kazzazi but i am so so worried. i am only young and have the rest of my future in front of me and im so worried about the op going wrong and causing implications for the foreseeable future. i have these days but then others i simply can not wait as i am just sick of being flat chested?! what do you girls think? i have been wanting this for years but never thought id be able to afford it.. but i have saved and saved for it. what happens if there are complications? i am going to uni in sept and dont wamt to be having boob issues..
i know i am thinking very negative here but these are the thoughts running around in my head!maddie xx
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2pLots of girls go through these emotions, so don’t feel alone. Only you can decide what you want’ I know I panicked just before and I was a mess but now I love having them and I am glad I did it. Xx
Hi. I had second thoughts the night b4 & even on the morning whilst in the hospital…… But I had a word with myself & asked myself ‘why I was doing this?’ Then I just remembered how I hated my half empty boobs (from having a child) and that I wouldn’t go swimming or go abroad with my husband as me in a bikini was a no go… So I gave myself a slap (so to speak) and doo glad I went through with it. I’m now 6 days post op & even though there still swollen,I love them… I feel more woman and my confidence can only get better(once I’ve stopped wearing granny bras) But only you can make the decision,maybe take a bit longer to decide,gather more information and ask yourself are boobs going to make you feel more better within yourself? I’ve not heard of many going wrong,just stick to your medication,don’t over do it & you will be fine. But again,only you can make that decision. X😃
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Hey hun. I was exactly the same as you. I looked into mya when i was 18 before uni but then decided it wasnt right. I am now 27, my figure has matured naturally and i am financially stable with a job. I still feel anxious as i dont want it to go wrong but i am not worrying about how it will affect my life on-going. Like the other girls have said it is completely up to you and an individual choice and it may just be a cold feet syndrome, but my advice would be don’t let others put time pressure on you to make a decision. You can save the money and do it in a few months, a year or nearly 10 years later like i have. No rush! Good luck xx
Hey hun I was exactly the same to.. I was an emotional rollercoaster! You are having an op and there is risks associated with it! It’s normal to worry and second guess yourself! I nearly backed out through worrying but now I’m 5 days post op and I can honestly say I made the right decision! You’re only young once is how I see it! Good luck sweet xxx
I was the exact same! I actually convinced myself I was going to die! I was so stressed my relationship with my partner nearly ended I was so bad! But I’m led here looking at my new addition day dreaming about my hols in October! You’ll be fine Hun just try and put it to the back of your mind until d day!! If I can do it I’m sure you can Hun xxxxx
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2pI was the same. About 10 mins before I went down I turned to my boufriend and said why am I doing this! I cried all morning was pacing the floor with nerves! Try taking before pics and look at them when you are thinking of backing out it really helps!!
Thanks girls … Just to let you All know I know I am going through with it! If I don’t I know I will regret it and be miserable! It’s not like I can wait until next year as I am doing nursing and hardly have anytime off uni! So yes, I am doing this!! Took this pic earlier and makes me excited to change it!! Xxx
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0pHi I have these same thoughts in my head about it going wrong, as I’ve been wanting this BA for years and it’s only now I’m wanting it done. Glad you are going to have it done. I have two friends that have had it done and they don’t regret it at all 🙂 can I add you x
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