Boyfriends reaction Started by: Sarah

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  • Sarah 20
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    July 10, 2015 at 1:04 pm
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    This may sound silly but girls who have boyfriends I need to ask haha! I had my op 3 weeks ago and have only shown my boyfriend my boobs twice. When he first saw them he said they looked weird.. I showed him last night and he told me he thinks they look stuck on and the look on his face just said it all.. Disappointment! It’s really frustrating me! I didn’t get them for him or to please him at all but it’s so disheartening to hear his opinion because it’s a negative one :/ I keep explaining they will drop and fluff over the next couple of months and look more natural but I think I’m trying to convince myself more than him haha! Has anyone else had the same problem?! X

    Anonymous
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    July 10, 2015 at 2:22 pm
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    My boyfriend has been so supportive! Gave me a bath 3 days post op and had a shower with me about 5 days post op washed my hair and stuff. He was there when I cried taking my bra off (was painful!) and when I said they looked weird he was just really supportive and said they would drop and look better. He’s obsessed with them now at 4 weeks post op and always wants to see them!! Give him time! They always look a bit funny at first and he is probably not used to seeing something there! I was like you, did it for myself and for confidence but you alway wants that reassurance from others close to you. He will get used to them I’m sure!! X

    Lynnette osborne 6
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    July 10, 2015 at 2:33 pm
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    My fella just wasn’t interested. He seen mine 12 days after the op. He was surprised they where that big as they don’t look big with my top on.
    But I got a comment the other day asking me with I was happy with him, so I just think it’s there Insecurities showing and I had remind him I have wanted this for 20 years.
    I believe when the healing stage has passed and it’s all safe, they will come to love them.
    Xx

    Lauren xoxo 8
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    July 10, 2015 at 2:36 pm
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    I’ve only just booked my surgeon consultation so haven’t had mine yet but I think men are visual creatures. They react to what is in front of them in that moment and i think a lot of them would find it hard to imagine how something like your boobs will change. I know my boyfriend can be very black and white when it comes to things! You know yourself from being on here they will change loads even months from now and look completely different! He hasn’t seen all the progress pictures of girls boobs that we have on here! You could always show him some? But try not to get disheartened by his reaction hun!! I bet he will be obsessed with them soon 😉

    Hayley 21
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    July 10, 2015 at 3:01 pm
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    My boyfriend dosnt seem interested in mine either but I think that’s down to how much pain im in x

    B Michaela 24
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    July 10, 2015 at 3:11 pm
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    I think boys just don’t know how to react to it all. My boyfriend acts really un-interested, when I tried on the sizers he wouldn’t say which he thought was better. And just acted really uninterested in it all, I’m 10 days post op and he’s still the same. He only ever asks if I like them, then says if I’m happy he’s happy, just don’t think he wanted his opinion to affect my decision.
    It probably is his insecurities as guys react in weird ways, so as long as you love them leave him to it 😀 you know they are only going to get better xxx

    Misia 54
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    July 10, 2015 at 8:32 pm
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    My boyfriend love me for flat chest so I think after surgery, he will have another toy 🙂 I think guys if they love they not really care about size, they just want us to be happy 🙂

    Nicole 8
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    July 10, 2015 at 11:19 pm
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    #853134

    My boyfriend is the same, totally not interested, you would of thought they would love it! Guys are strange !

    Billie Jayne 8
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    July 11, 2015 at 8:41 am
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    That’s such a shame! How do you feel about them? My boyfriend can’t get enough of them! I’m sure they have got some changing to do yet if they look anything like mine did at first then I get it because I thought the same about mine! I’m sure he will love them soon enough x

    Anonymous
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    July 11, 2015 at 8:44 am
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    I havent had my procedure yet but my boyfriend is super excited! In fact, he paid for my deposit and will be paying half of the finance! Woo. Xx

    Sarah 20
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    July 11, 2015 at 9:01 am
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    Thanks for all the replies girls!! I just think maybe he expected them to look perfect as soon as they were put in haha! I’m actually really happy with them that’s why I was shocked and a bit upset with what he said. I’ll admit they’re still hard and look very round and quite high but I’m only 3 weeks post op so I was prepared for that lol. I’m sure he will change his mind in a months time hahaha hopefully! Xx

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