Bad Ba result-im so depressed :( Started by: Emma
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Seriously upset with how my ba has turned out, i see everyone wih amazimg results and feel so cheated, i never expected perfection but the same size boobs after augmentation would of been enough, ive always had asymmetry doesnt bother me both boobs look different, but i was told my dr singh that i had one breast larger than the other, after we had picked a size i asked and asked and was constantly reassured that they would be the same size after surgery as this was a big concern of mine to begin with, but that hasnt been the case my bigger one is now way bigger and wider and is noticeable in clothes and without looks horrendous, my cleavage isnt worth showimg as you can see he implant on the larger side but nothing on the other and it feels wierd on the larger side too, i dont understand how different implant sizes wasnt used by either using a smaller size implant in the larger one or a larger implant in the right one, i seriously feel at a loss like the effort and healing and everything has been for nothing more than a waste its soul destroying, i have not had a vest on or any revealing clothes this summer as i just cant put myself through it, when i notice someone look at me i cant help but think its cause they have noticed my problem, i raised the issue with dr singh he agreed by saying yes there different but proceeded to say there fine but he then went in to tell me he was taking a year out, and i cant help bit think he saved himself a revision by just signing me off, feel so let down by him as it wasnt an easy choice chosing him and i had total trust in him, Mya birmingham have been amazimg with me though from day one ive had full support and always feel welcome when i attend the clinic, have no issues here atall, my pc amanda she is an angel, she has and is still doing her utmost to help me can not fault her atall, will keep everyone posed as im hoping to get another opinion , as i would rather have the implants removed and live life with saggy boobs i can disguise with bras than have boobs i have to hide for the rest of my life 🙂 hope all is well with everyome recovering 🙂 thanks for listening to my rant x
Oh Hun really sorry to hear this.
I would ask to see another surgeon and also did he right in your original notes you was asymmetric? As then you can prove and argue why he didn’t used different sized implants xIm not too sure hun i havent seen them, but i will definatly ask amanda, amanda is going to get my a second opinion as soon as she has confirmed surgeon dates, shes amazing, im so desperate for something to be done its affecting me in ways i never thought it would, which is a daily battle as soon as i put a bra on im reminded things arnt right xxx
Aww I hope you get them sorted I can’t imagine how you feel, that’s so sad about your surgeon as well what a selfish man. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you good luck xxxxxx
Thanks hun, i hope a surgeon will hear my concerns and take me seriously, i domt know how he revision system works and not sure if a new surgeon would want to take on the hassle of dealing with me 🙁 i dont want bigger boobs or anything my situation isnt down to boob greed as people may think i wpuldnt go any bigger than what i have just want them the same size sooooo sooooo bad and get a feeling of normal back xxx
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2pHey Hun I can so relate to your story, I’m going through same emotions as you. I’m not happy with mine. Big hug xx
Have you been back yet to see them? The right on the pic looks more swollen.. Does it feel harder or look more rounded out of a bra that the other? Was this always the bigger boob and was there a big difference to start with?
If your worried you def should go back ASAP to see them honey so they can sort it out for you
Good luck
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Hi just seen your pictures and in all honesty your boobs look fine on your photos on profile page as they look same size to me, however it’s just this photo you have posted on this post and they do look dramatically different sizes which makes me think could this be capsular contraction? X
I’m in a similar position to you, I had 375cc in both back in April and now have a noticeable difference in size (my crease is lower on my right boob and it projects nearly an inch more than the left) – if I wear a tight top / dress I have to stick one of my old chicken fillets in my left bra cup so that the size difference isn’t so obvious – some clothes I don’t wear at all because the difference is so noticeable- it’s got worse the more they’ve settled. I saw my surgeon at 10 weeks post op & he said I could have a bigger implant in the one (he was almost thinking out loud when he said this) but to give it 6 months to see if I get used to the difference before thinking about another op!!
Ive spent a lot of money on my boobs & I don’t think I should have to ‘get used to’ wonky boobs. I know they can take 6 months for the implants to settle but I know now that my boobs aren’t going to magically become the same size and I’m desperate to get a reop sorted. October seems sooo far away at the moment ?
I hope you get sorted with another surgeon soon, I met with Amanda at Mya when I was researching- she’s lovely (I had my op elsewhere in the end though) . if u ever need a rant, feel free to send me a message ? xxSo sorry to hear this Hun, it’s such an emotional rollercoastrr and do hard to go through. I had my first BA then one went double the size because of fluid build up. Living with it was so hard as I felt the same people knew and we’re looking. But always something can be done and fixed ! Where there is a will there is a way, fingers crossed Amanda gets a second opinion meeting sorted and your on the path in the right direction. On the positive note it can be fixed ❤️ !! Hope your ok x
I really appreciate all of your replies and im so hoping something comes of my worrying, i am seriously turning into a recluse, i hate bein intimate with my partner and wont let him see them its cause more issues han i thought but i cant switch my brain off from it, my boobs look so horrible in bras, and vests n any low cut top 🙁 i feel like a moaner but its ruining me, my right breast is harder but only slightly it does move freely bit is a differemt shape to the other side ill post another pic so you can see the difference x
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0pHave you considered it might be capsular contracture? It certainly looks that way! Other than that I think they look great! Xx
My boobs were great up until around 6 weeks i mentioned to the nurse and was told to allow time for them to drop which i was happy to but now im nearly 5 months out, i have textured implants too so there wont be anymore dropping and flufffing from what ive read xx
It looks like one isn’t dropped, so most likely is CApsular. Even IF you had natural asymmetry the implants wouldn’t make such a big difference or you’d naturally be at least a cup different. That’s not normal so keep pushing for revision (nicely of course), but it has to be done.
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