I’ve got a two and four year old, I couldn’t do the school runs mainly because pushing the stroller but around the house I’m fine with them. I’m four days post op, had no pain but I am restricted with arm
movement. Also very tired!
My suggestion would be pre arrange a weeks worth of clothing so you don’t have to raise your arms or pull on things. Make up lots of frozen meals, pre arrange some activities that need your minimum input.
Everyone reacts differently but that’s on my experience! Good luck