Sorry i kno this has probably been asked a million times and everyone heals differently, im just wondering how people have found recovery with overs. Im PO day 5, im alone with a 1yr old so my mam kindly offered to let us stay with her until im over the worst so she could help me out, but even though my pain isnt constant, i still cant lift my little girl so mam is basically doing everything for me and its taking its toll on her. Im just really after a rough idea of how long i can expect to be so useless!! Wondering when people found they could lift/cuddle your little ones? When could you drive? When could you go from sitting to standing (+ vice versa, right now its like everytime i get up/sit down i get massive pains in my right incision, if im sat still/have been walking and loosened up abit, im pretty ok) without pain? When could you put your own hair up? When could you sleep lying down? When did you feel normal again? Anyones stories would be appreciated! Thanks x