Absolutely distraught Started by: Terri
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I have just taken my Macom off at 5 days post op. I already thought I was not happy with them as they feel very far down my chest and appear saggy when this is the time when they should be under my chin before they drop. Well when I took my bra off I sobbed my heart out. I am totally gutted with what I have got. I had an uplift and 275cc implants and they are so low, my nipples are so far down and they look saggy from the side. I totally regret my decision and wish I could go back and not have the operation. I’m embarrassed that everyone thought I would have lovely boobs afterwards and there is no chance I could not not wear a bra in future and I am totally gutted. I know there are so many worse things in the world but I just feel so disheartened and know there’s nothing I can do about them 🙁 🙁 :(. Also the after pics completely demonstrate the after op bloat I feel like a massive sausage.
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You must be logged in to view attached files.dont worry hun they still arent anything like the finished boobies you’re gonna have!! i think they look like theyre gonna be great lvoely and natural and suit you. i think its just because theyre bigger above the nipple at first, until they drop. this will probably make your nipple more central. i started with absolutely nothing and my nipples are basically pointing downwards at the min haha! try not to worry hun theyre gonna be great xxx
I’m just so worried because my skin was in terrible condition and is already stretched so where the skin at the top will reduce and the bottom stretch as the implant ‘drops’ my skin at the top won’t bounce back and I’ll be left with the skin again in this area. I am so upset I feel like such an idiot for thinking he could really sort my boobs out. Thanks Darcy. I know I am being over dramatic but it’s so much money and an uplift comes with the big scars too and I just feel like I have a bigger heavier version of what I already had 🙁 I’m gunna pray for a boob miracle lol. It’s just everyone’s pics I’ve seen from this stage don’t look anything like mine. Never mind it’s done now xxx
Aww babe don’t be disheartened. I know how you feel with the regret but I honestly think it happens to a lot of people to begin with. I’m pod5 and this is the best I’ve felt since my op, I haven’t looked at my boobs today and I’m not gonna look at them until my 1 week post op because I know how much changing they gotta do. I honestly think your boobs look amazing for the first week, they look so natural that’s exactly the look I was going for!! I honestly wouldn’t worry, you’ve paid loads for this and things can only get better. The first worst is always going to be the worst because we expect perfection right away. I’m sure you will love them in the end it’s just a long healing process with lots of changes xxx
Thanks girls, don’t know what I would do without this forum to vent on. I’m so upset my poor boyfriend doesn’t know what to say or do lol. I have just spent ages looking at other people at 5 day PO who have had an uplift and they should be right under my nose at this point before they start to drop 🙁 I know I am jumping massively and missing out a lot of healing but if I still feel this way and can show that my results are much different to other people who have similar pre op stats and have had the same implants have much better results than I do that they would consider a re-op? I am so happy I didn’t go for the bigger implant that I was torn between and went for the smallest. Gosh I hope I feel better about them tomorrow. I’m back at work tonight 🙁 xxx
Terri I think they look great!!! They’re lovely and suit your figure. And your figure is gorgeous by the way!! Don’t be disheartened as they still have so much changing to do. You look like you’ve been lucky bloating wise! You don’t even look that bloated chick – jealous! Hope you feel better soon ???? Xxxxx
give it a few weeks hun everyone heals and drops etc at different rates so dont worry about comparing with other people. one of my boobs have dropped more than the other lol my bra looks lopsided. aw bless your boyfriend, at least hes keeping quiet i’d prefer that my boyfriend said to me yesterday ‘are they supposed to be that far apart?’ i just cried hahaha. i think its just an emotional time in general so expect tears and tantrums until we’re healed and try not to be disheartened i think theyre just gonna look dead natural hun xxx
I’ve just looked at your before and after piccies and I thought wow they look amazing.
Try and not be too disheartened Hun, I’m sure once they’ve settled you’ll absolutely love them. XAw you’s are all lovely. I’m a highly strung person I know that so I know I need to calm myself down. It’s so hard though when you have an image in your head and then everyone else’s pics are so different. I’m not going to open my bra even once until my nurse op on Thursday and hopefully they’ll have climbed an inch up my chest by then haha I’m joking. Thanks again girls xxx
Aww terri I just want to come and give you a hug! I have been and still am very up and down about my uplift/implants as you know. My advice would be to not look st them for a good few days and then take another photo and you will be surprised by how much they have changed. I’m going to attach a photo of my side view when I was 15 days po – my nipple is very low down and points south also but as the implant settles in your nipple kind of moves and points more upwards. Xx
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You must be logged in to view attached files.Oh wow Nikki when you show those two pics side by side there isn’t half a change! I’ve iust screenshotted them and jumped between them (never seen so many tits as I have in the last few months ha ha) and they really have completely altered and now sit so different. This is giving me a little hope that mine can do something. I know they won’t stay exactly the same but I am so unsure of which way they will go, sag more or just change shape like yours which I am praying for. This forum is great. I’ve cried on to my boyfriend all day and my Mam and obviously those two have no idea so it really helps to talk to other people who have been through all the healing stages and crazy emotions. I honestly feel a bit bloody depressive today and I am sure it can’t just be from having a look my hormones must have been mucked right up. Honestly Nikki yours look so great and I am praying mine morph in to yours in the next 6 weeks (preferably next few days tho haha) xxx
Haha I know what you mean about looking at boobs! I find myself looking st other people’s when I’m out shopping and stuff – thinking does my cleavage look like hers etc. The thing to remember is these surgeons have seen hundreds of boobs and know which ones are capable of achieving what. I know everyone’s react to the surgery differently but I would be very surprised if your surgeon has given you the impression that what you’re looking for is achievable if it isn’t. I really do think yours look great for 5 days. We all have an image in our head of the perfect shape/size but sadly it’s not as easy as picking from a catalogue. Our starting points in terms of size, shape, texture are all different so the outcome will be different. Don’t get me wrong I totally know how you feel – this morning I hated mine yet this evening I quite like them. It’s such an emotional time. My boyfriend doesn’t get me. He doesn’t understand why I don’t love what I’ve got. But, to be fair he couldn’t understand why I couldn’t love what I had. He’s no God in terms of his body by any means but he’s happy with what he’s been given and loves my oft the way it is and was. Us girls are far too hard on ourselves ???? We should give ourselves a break but we’re always striving for more or better. I thought new boobs would solve everything lol. We need to love ourselves as we are. Xx
Who done your opp if you don’t mind me asking? Xxx
They look fine to me ! It might be because you had an implant maybe if you have just a larger implant they would of sat higher they just look more natural than the fake look
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