How to tell family I want a BA Started by: Katya Allison

I told my family straight and told them they wouldn’t change my mind either way I found being blunt and open about it was better I just told them straight up and they were supportive don’t keep putting it off or you may never tell them xx

In all honestly I found it hard telling my family. Everyone’s different but I didn’t get any support at all at first. I told My mum in November last year and she was adamant that it was a waste of money and I could invest it in better things. My surgery is in 3 days and I told my dad at the start of this week. We literally had the biggest argument about debt and this and that and in the end I had to be super blunt for him to realise I wasn’t going to change my mind. Make sure you stick your ground honey and do your research before telling family I found that was a bonus for me. My partners mum has always wanted a BA so she really has supported me throughout! Good luck xx

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I booked my surgery in December and didn’t tell my mum till the beginning of Feb (had my op on the 21st) who was really understanding. She told my dad for me and apparently he was really angry about it, it’s only since having the op and my mum explaining and showing my dad that all I own is those 2 cups bigger bras that he actually understands why I have had it done because he thought I had decent sized boobs already and wanted them huge. I think you just have to be straight with him and explain how it affects you because ultimately he would want you to be happy in yourself xxxx

Same as Lauren my dad laughed aswell lol. Then I just spoke about it like it was normal and kept saying how excited I was to my mum and dad and they are 100% fine about it. My dad is on the army and has always been against like smoking and stuff so I was worried but he was amazing about it! I’m sure your dad will understand as he will just want what’s best for you. Xxx