Hi ladies.
I am single mother and have 2 children who are 7 and 4. I had my ba in April in the easter hols. My friend looked after them at my house as I was an overnight stay. I didnt have any help when I got back home other than 4 days post op when my mam came and did housework and brought me sum shopping. Luckily my 7 year old did things I cudnt like hoovering and passing me stuff out of cupbards I could not reach. It wad difficult but had to just rest and leave housework.
As for bras, I got macom for after surgery which you only have to order back size as fits all cup sizes then few days after surgery got m&s zip front as I cud try on for size.