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Ive been so excited since i booked my surgery! But now as its only 2 weeks away im starting to worry and my family and friends arent supporting me, they keep saying im going to regret it :(, everytime i try to talk about it they never anwser me or just pretend they didnt hear, im so scared if i do regret it or i get a complication they are going to say i told you so!
Just making me wonder if im doing the right thing!. Its such a shame i feel like this now because ive been so excited and have wanted this for so long. I also live with my parents so during my recovery they arent going to help me as they arent very simpathetic, i just wish they would support me 🙁 x

Aww bless you sweety, jus ignore them honestly yes there are Risks with any surgeries not just cosmetic and tbh breast augmentation is not a major surgery believe it or not. Your body your decision no-one has a right to put anyone down and hey the forum is here so well support you hun 🙂 cheer up think you’d be strutting those new boobies, and I agree they should be supportive but jealously is a big part of that! Xx

I really feel for you hun, it’s a tough thing to go through without support. All I can say is how I feel and I do not regret anything . I couldn’t be happier with the result. It feels so good to have boobs, I can’t tell you 🙂 x

Thanks girls it nice to have this forum and support from you! I dont think i would have gone trough with it without it! xx

Hi Kirsty – nerves and pre-op worries are totally normal and part of the process, you’ll be fine. I just had Vaser lipo yesterday and am so pleased I did it (and I’m over 50, so it was a huge thing for me). I wanted to cancel about 3 weeks before due to sheer nerves and reading bad stories. Yes there are risks but there are many more happy stories than bad. One thing I would say is find a very good friend who loves and supports you to be with you on the day and help you immediately after. You need that support to help not only emotionally, but also for running around to get you stuff when you are resting. Good luck and keep talking to supportive people, avoid the others xxx

Heya Kirsty
I felt exactly the same 2 weeks before my op – really down and wondering if it’s the right thing to do
Now its 3 days away Im bouncing off the walls again excited like when it was 6 weeks away
I think it’s normal we’ve all felt like that around this time, us girlies are emotional
Just remember it’s something you want and it’s going to make you happy 🙂
I’ve never spoken to anyone who has regretted it
Good luck doll xx

Yeah you girls are right! In sure its just my nerves making me feel down! Thank you all for the support i realy appreciate it! xx

Its not easy goin thru it pretty much alone hopefully u will have someone lookin after u abit but u will get thru it even if alone hopefully u will b doing it for reasons that feel right to u and thats what matters end ov the day, its your life and sometimes u just gota b positive coz theres always gona b someone bein negative about anythin u do in life hun x

That’s awful Kirsty, my mum was the same for a while – she said I’d regret it and didn’t understand why I’d want to change myself, but I sat down with her, spoke through my reasons for wanting surgery (there are loads), and gave her some medical information about it, and said that I knew what the risks were, most of which are rare, and even the more common ones don’t happen that often. I asked her how she would feel without the support of her mother if she was doing something like this to herself because it’s a vulnerable place to be in – you have cosmetic companies to deal with, surgeons to deal with and you have to research it all yourself, plus you’re so desperate to look and feel better about yourself… So yeah, she finally got it and told me she’d want to be there for me if she could.

I think just talking about it plainly is a good thing. And if your family can’t support you, just go for it – you only live once and you should be happy during your life.
I’m sure once you’ve had the surgery they’ll see how happy it makes you and they’ll be more supportive.

A lot of people think people want boobs for attention or to change their lives, but that’s not realistic. One of my friends told me that I was a big fake for wanting boobs, but I think that is maybe to do with women competing with each other. She didn’t get that having no boobs makes me miserable. But it’s not about other people – we’re the ones doing it, it’s about us being happy! 🙂 Go be happy! 🙂 xx

Thanks soo much for the nice comments! Your right it is my choice and it will make me happy soo i shouldnt feel bad about doing it! Yeah maybe il try sitting them down and talking it through! Thanks again this realy helps xxx

My mum has been the same but during the summer when she saw how conscious I was in a bikini it made her realise how unhappy I was about my boobs and is even contributing to them now 🙂 xxx

Hey ladies,

I feel so sorry for all of those whose families have been putting you down about surgery. That’s kind of the reason why I’m not telling anyone 🙂 Only my partner and mya know (oh and the surgeon). Luckily though it won’t be noticeable for me (even though I’m aiming for a full E/F) as I was an E for 9 months while pregnant and then a FF while breastfeeding for 15 months and I only stopped breastfeeding at the end of september so have been wearing padded bras and baggy jumpers (with the winter coming it’s been ok). So it won’t be any different!

xxxx

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