Anyone else feeling really down?

I don’t know how to explain it, yes I’m excited to get a boob job! But the comments people make, about you or the money or even just snide things to kill your excitement! It’s a pretty lonely process when I think about it!

I could not agree more! Been wanting this since I was young, I’m only 19 now and getting my BA done in April, speaking about it with family and friends before I even thought about coming to mya & they made me feel awful, just “love yourself” you clearly don’t “love yourself” so doing this journey alone! Haven’t told anyone around me and this forum has been such a big help to bring up my spirits again, I haven’t got my girlies to talk to about my excitement but I have you girls in this forum! Thank you all hahaha!xx

Literally yes!! The whole “love yourself” like it just eats at you feel so bloody judged, I’m only a little older than you 21 but honest to god it can be so lonely, especially when like close mates out you down rather than being excited with you! Definitely need to turn to the forum more often! Xx

When is your surgery?? And yeah feel totally the same, this forum is a god send, with reassurance and just the general chit chat, the girls are so lovely xx

I’m booked for 21st of March! And yeah definitely just never know how to express how frustrating it is, like I know how lucky we are to be having the operation but it’s just an emotional thing but everyone just sees it as “only boobs” xx

Hi girls I had my op 3 weeks ago tomorrow and know what you mean I didn’t tell any one i was having it done, people don’t know how you feel about your body, it’s like when people say they want to lose weight and you say they don’t need to its how they feel, and end of the day we are only here once and you have got to spend the life time with yourself so make sure you are happy with you screw what everyone else says or thinks I couldn’t be happier with my boobs and now I’ve told everyone and I’ve got the odd “I’m mad, what have I done that for, do i know what can go wrong” my one friend even said I knew you was up to some thing stupid. Stupid??????? Finally making myself happy in my own skin is not stupid to me and rave and smart, do people say love yourself to people unfortunate enough to be born with deformities who have corrective surgery stupid? No because that is acceptable, but to me having no boobies as a lady was a deformity and I finally after all these years feel normal. Good luck with your ops and trust me it’s worth every single second xxx

You should ignore them, you’re doing this for you and you only, who cares what they think! I had a lot of negativity and now I’m applying for revision there’s no way I’m telling many people as il prob hear more comments.

If you feel lonely I recommend making a MYA Instagram of your journey, we have quite a big community on there and everyone is lovely with advice etc 🙂 xxx

Ignore them, my in laws will be horrendous when they find out and they will laugh at me. I don’t care. I’ve saved my rear end off for this for the last year.
I don’t care what they think. The only reason I am doing this is for ME, I hate my breasts I don’t feel like a woman at all. I hate how they look, how I look. I know it’s hard but ignore them, come on here and post away, we are all here to help and support one another. 🙂

I just read my post it was meant to say brave and smart not rave and smart lol although rave if it makes you feel better, I think we are all very brave ladies for going through what we have/are to get what we finally want xxx strong independent women xxxx

OMG gilrs! Ignore people!! Who cares what people think they are probably just jelous anyway!!!
We do this for us to feel better about ourselves! Its such a shame we even have to feel that shit about ourselves that self concious or unhappy to have it done, we are all bloody brave because its painful and uncomfortable afterwoods!! We have guts to go through all that to feel happy with outselves. I used to cry litterally every day getting dressed i used to change bras and tops like 10 times to not look so flat then give up! So yeah i had it done and if anyone said anythibg against it , just say do you have any idea what its like to hate yourself so much it depresses you? Cry everytime you look in the mirror? That shuts them up!
Good lick with your ops abd F all the unsupportive jealous ignorant people wo don’t understand or who font have the guts to so it theirselves!
Enjoy your new boobies they’ll make you soo happy you wont even care about them!! 🙂 xxx

Thank you all so much! Genuinely all gave me a bit of confidence to tell them all to mind their own!! Can’t wait for my op now! I hope all your recoveries went well! Definitely doing this for myself and it’s about time me and everyone else getting it done felt good! Xx

@bernie96 Hey Hun, it’s horrible you feel so down about something that is going to make you so happy because people around you are being so negative! There’s a whatsapp group a girl on here created with all girls getting there boobs done in March.. if you fancy sending me your number I can add you in if you like? theres about 39 other excited gals on there who will fully support your decision and be just as excited as you are! xx

Aw thank you, yeah it’s just getting a lot like my boyfriend and Mum are great about it, it’s just like friends being like nasty for no reason at all it’s like you want to be able to be excited with them like I’m always excited for them with everything! And I was in the chat and left it by accident went to mute for a meeting and left if by accident, I did message one of the girls and I said you know I’m sorry I left it was a genuine mistake and was talked about adding me back but I don’t wanna impose on anyone so nothing came of it really! Xxx

They’re probably just jealous of what your new boobs and confidence will look like! and oh no something that I’d do aha, send me a message with your number sweet, doesn’t impose on anyone we’re all on the same boat xxx

Aw thank you I’ll send you it now! Honestly didn’t think I’d feel so down about getting what I’ve wanted for so long xxx

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