Bitchy comments

Supposed I better get used to jealous women with boob envy!

Hi Hun are you ok ?xx

Yea Hun thank you, just tested the water and told someone (even though they didn’t know before) and now the judgement and opinions start :-/ xx

🙁 Hun , most ppl just don’t understand , I’m afraid there’s always going to be girls acting jelous too , once the summer comes there going to be nowhere to hide, they will just have to get used to it.xx

Exactly. Sod them. Thanks Hun xxx

Hi Emma I had the same last night wheny husband told his dad, his reaction wasn’t what I needed to be honest . I got the omg why have u not read the bad press ?? I hope ur body doesn’t reject them all that rubbish. I’m a 31 yr old mother of 3 it’s my Body my choice. Everyone has hang ups but I had the balls to do something about it !!!
People can judge all they like but I didn’t do it to please them , I did it for me!! Jus ignore the negative comments as long as ur happy that’s the main thing Hun xx

Thank you 🙂 I’m 29 and have been unhappy for years they don’t get it as they never saw u naked beforehand so just don’t understand. Don’t see what gives people the right to think they deserve to have a dig about implants. Do my head in, upset me,not telling anyone else they can just notice on there own. Only my boyfriend knows xx

It’s funny how family take the longest to understand they just see us as perfect as we are. My 18yr old niece is so strongly against cosmetic surgery her opinion of me means a lot iv always loved her strong views , so I told her first , evern before my sister , I told her I’d lost all my breast tissue after breast feeding and told her I just needed her to widnen her view for me . She’s such a beautiful girl , now she’s nagging me for my old bras.xx

My family don’t know yet once they get over the shock they will be ok, I have 2 sisters who I’m dreading telling the most…xx

I’ve pre warned most people as I’m a small 32aa so they’re going to notice when I eventually have surgery! lol. So far I don’t know any female that supports me fully, all bitching about how I should be grateful with what I have (which lets be honest isn’t alot, lol). I’ve got 2 beautiful children that have always had the best of everything. They’re now 5 and 3 and its about time I treat myself for once! Only my better half and my male best friend have been understanding. Green eyed monster must be lurking about I think lol. Keep your chin up, it’ll soon be water under the bridge xxx

Hi hun, I think all of us get nasty comments. I didn’t have mine done yet and I already recieved bad comments. But people who made them never see me naked, only in heavily padded bras. I didn’t go too big, I just wanted good looking breasts. I’m happy with them and I don’t really care what other people think anymore…. xxxx Just ignore it!!!

Thanks girls, this forum has been a massive support from before surgery to now 🙂 xx

Hey girls

It’s mad isn’t it, we live in this supposedly free society where we should embrace each other for the people we are and yet people react so negatively when we try and do something for ourselves for the better. I think with family when we tell them it’s more worry but with others I can only think it’s jealousy. I was dreading telling my parents and their reaction shocked me because they were amazingly brilliant about it. I thought my brother would be cool and he didn’t take it very well.

When people react negatively or question why I’m doing what I’m doing. I point out the fake tan, nails or hair style / colour that they have and point out that surgery isn’t really any different, in principle to say dying hair.

When all around you are bitching girls, keep those heads of yours high and proud…xx

Its ridiculous isn’t it. My family have been way more supportive than my ‘friends.’ How is it any different to doing ur hair a nicer colour or having ur teeth whitened? X

I echo all of the comments on here. The only people I have told is my hubby (obviously – but he wasn;t supportive at first, no totally is) and 3 friends who have had theirs done. Holly Louise is right, no girl I know is that supportive – only those that have had it done. That’s why this forum is so helpful, we ALL support each other, because we all know the insecurities we have lived with for 2, 5, 10, 15 years!!!!! We don’t enter into lightly, and it’s not like we wann be porn stars or anything – and even if we did, who has the right to judge anyone else?! United we stand boobie-sisters!!! x x x

I just don’t see the difference between making a permanent change with implants and stuffing your bra with massive padding, air, gel etc 🙁 I love my boobs and feel like a woman now with or without a bra so people can ram there opinions xx I agree this forum is ace and means a lot getting support on here when all my other female friends will surely judge xx

Ditto to all the above, I’m on day 3 of starting back to work & it seems everyone’s jumped on the hate on ducky bandwagon :/ it’s shit virtual hugs to all my booby buddy’s xxx

I think I’ve been very lucky all my friends and family have been fab about it all at work they have been ok To some of the girls said they are well jel but n a nice way but saying that u don’t know they say behind your back but that’s cool I’m 34 years old with 3 kids I can do wot the hell I like x

I never get why woman have to be bitchy if somebody told me I would say good on them and can I have a feel 😀 not be bitchy that make u look jel. xx

Usually when people make comments like that (especially girls) it is because they can’t afford to do it themselves or they are jealous, simple as. So many people I know would turn around and say “If I had the money I’d do it.” Don’t let anyone’s jealousy stop you from being happy, I haven’t had mine done yet and I already know out of my friends who will make comments when I do! Just got to think they want what you have!!! Chin up xxxxx

All my close friends have been great and they’ve all asked for a flash and said they look fab. The only negative comment I’ve had was from another school mum, who when I mentioned I was having a quiet Xmas because I was having a little op, was very nosey and asked me what the operation was for! Her face was a picture when I whispered ” a boob job” and she then pulled a face and asked me what I was having that done for. I replied “cos I deserve it after 3 kids”. Can’t wait till summer and then I can flaunt them in her face haha x I have noticed though on nights out that women scowl more and men perve more! X

i told one of my best friends about 4 weeks ago and i was so worried about her opinion, we havent spoke since. she really didnt agree with my decision xx

I have had the same Kate, clearly not as good mate as I thought :-/ xx

I don’t understand how you can judge a so called friend just coz they want a Boob job,just shows how shallow thay are.many people wish they could if they had the money.
no need for it 🙁

I have had exactly the same, my three best friends are the only people that know I stuff one side of my bra because I’m asymmetrical and initially it was ‘oh babe honestly it must be horrible but you’d never know’ I told them together over a Starbucks coffe when we were on about summer I was seriously considering a boob job to solve the problem so I could finally feel like a proper lady and be proud and happy with my body and I got comments like ‘why are you doing that? How can you afford a boob job and I don’t see your problem they’re not even bad when you have a bra on? Lets just say that was the end of that conversation and have only spoke to one since!
I stand by it, I’m having this done to make me feel better about myself dressed or undressed. I want to look down and not want to cry. I’m doing this for me! And this is what I have to keep telling myself! Heads held high ladies our happiness is what’s important nothing else! Xxx

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