Boobs and Boyfriends

Hi girls, oh I just feel stuck in a rut and I don’t know what to do. I’ve been wanting to get a BA for years now since I was 18 I am now 22 and know it’s something I really want. I was booked in for February this year but my boyfriend is so against me getting them done and I ended up cancelling my op. He’s said that he doesn’t want me to change but I’m still the same girl just with a few helpful adjustments 🙂 I don’t know what to do I’m booked in now for the 22nd April but haven’t told him yet, I don’t wanna loose him but I also hate my boobs what shall I do!?

Babe its your life and if it’s going to make u feel happy then u should do it. Me and my other half had arguments at first cos he was worried that I was going to be showing them off to every tom dick and harry but after that he was so supportive and more excited than me. He said they are perfect even tho they are swollen and cone shaped atm cos im 1 day po. If he loves u he will respect ur decision and stand by u no matter what. Xxxx

Hard situation, but I would do what you want. He will adjust to them, and he shouldn’t leave you for it! he should support your decision hun, especially as it will make you happy! you obviously really want them & sometimes you have to do what makes you happy x

My boyfriend was the same at first hun. But then he realised how much I want it and how excited I am and now he’s as excited as me!! I think he should be supportive of what u want and it is ur body, you should do what makes u happy! 🙂 x

I wouldn’t let anyone control your deduction bout your body. It is only you who can decide, he can give you his opinion but shouldn’t impact your choice. If he loves you he will still be there supporting you. Don’t have any regrets x

Decision ** stupid phone lol x

Sounds really harsh but if you and him break up one day will you regret not getting something you’ve wanted for the same of a guy? He should want you to do what makes YOU happy xx

Thanks girls you are all right I need to put me first!!! I’m due to Beth them done 22nd April, will I be okay to go to Ibiza 4th June still? Xxx

My boyfriend has threatened to break up with me over my boobs, he’s still completely against it but now realises I need to do it for myself! I’m now living at his, he’s taking me for the op tomorrow an will be looking after me! Just make him realise how much it means to you hun. If he loves you he will accept that you need it for yourself and keep his opinions to himself. I really thought this would end me and my boyfriend but when he realised I was serious and how much it meant to me he dealt with it xxxx

Jamie that sounds just like me and him!!!! I’m guna tell him tomorrow after work when I see him
And hopefully he will support me and il get boobies and still have him 🙂 xxx

Tell him you’re having it done and if he doesn’t like it then tough tits! (Excuse the pun) xxxx

Girl do what makes you happy if he really loves you he’ll stick by you if he ain’t well then you knows he doesn’t really love you and in my opinion it’s my body no man on earth owns it il do what I want with my body
Don’t worry about what he will think or wether he will leave you if he does then he ain’t worth your time
Xx

Thanks girls! I know it’s my body and I wanna feel happy in it!!! Hope he will be okay xxx

I honestly never thought he would just accept it, I thought the arguments were just going to carry on and end things. Just speak to him about how serious you are and that you’ve properly thought about it! He should understand hun, don’t let him stop you getting them done because you’ll just hate him for it in the log run xxx

You need to do what’s right for you & your body, you obviously love him but if he loves you he will support your decision – he doesn’t have to like the decision but he needs to support you x my other half of 12 years hated my decision at first & we had some bad arguments over it but he knows that I need this for me x so he has accepted it and so supportive now & I think he is actually more excited about next Sunday

my fella didnt want me to have mine done, but wow he loves them now, cannot get enough of them.. go ahead, your boobs you will love forever, your man, well you may not ;o) chin up hunny, ur body ur life xx

Thank you so much everyone!!! Strong independent woman this is what I like to hear!!! Xxxx

Can I just add. I’ve had my BA when I was 19, it was the best thing I’ve done. I’ve never regretted it once. Many people tried to convince me otherwise, including my family. It has solved my insecurities over night:)

Thanks yana I need to do this for myself not my family or boyfriend 🙂 xx

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