Cancelling….

Well I’ve got my surgery booked and pretty much all paid for, and my mam has just found out and is not happy at all, basically saying she’ll never be happy with it, will never treat me the same again, why am I abusing my body, things go wrong all the time etc…fair play up my dad and sister having my back but I’m seriously considering cancelling….i want it do badly but it’s not worth my mam’s wrath and hassle which I’ll always get! I’m bloody 29!!!
So….would I get my money back except for the deposit it would I lose everything I’ve already paid?!
Thanks x

Really not sure if u wud get money back.

But surely ur mum understands this is something u want, even if she dusnt agree with it she shudnt be making u feel like this.

I’m not sure but I’ve heard another girl on here say she was told she couldn’t get her money back.
Only thing I don’t agree with if it’s true.
There is a 14 day cooling off period, not sure what the terms are tho you would have to read it
Hope you get it sorted x

Correct me if im wrong but i think you have a week or two afer you have seen the surgeon to get a full refund… Called the ‘cooling off period’

it’s in the terms and conditions hun in the booklet you would have been given… you do get 2 weeks cooling off period.. sure i read something about depending when you cancel depends how much you lose, i read it in the terms and conditions so would deffo look there… But on saying that i really think you should have a proper good think about your decision and do whats best for you , don’t do something you might later regret and hold against your mum if you get what i mean.. Do what will make you happy, i’m sure your mum will come round… Hope you make the right choice for you xx

Your mum will get over it Hun live your life (not meaning to sound harsh)
Do what makes you happy

Oh yeah I remember reading about it now….we’ll I’m not losing all that money! I wish I could say she’d cons round etc but I know she won’t! I saw consultant ages ago so passed the cooling off stage…only just paid big amount today too 🙁 really don’t know what to do!! Thanks for your help xx

Shes ur family if she comes round or not shes still ur family.

Surely your mum knows you’ll be unhappy if you lose your money and don’t have the op, hope you sort it out but if I were you I’d have it done your mum will always be there for you no matter what you do , I wouldn’t worry x

I don’t think she knows I’ve paid it lol! Aah I dunno! It my body and money after all…! Thanks girls, you’ve been a huge help 🙂 x

You will regret it if you Don’t do it and will probably resent your mum for it too… It’s a difficult situation which she shouldn’t have put you into in the first place.. It’s your decision.. You’re old enough to know what you want and need.
Ah families… My mum is the same just not so pushy… And I’m 32 haha

This is hard one, but personally I would do what you want as you are an adult and perhaps when your round your mum you can keep them covered abit so as not to rub them in her face as such.

Try giving her things to read to ease her mind about things going wrong all the time, thousands have surgery everyday and it isn’t like it used to be its a lot more safer now and the implants are definitely much better than they used to.

Don’t get yourself down about it you can only try and reassure her but you should definitely have it done because you will regret it if you don’t xxxx

Get it done and don’t tell your mum… Your 29 and it’s your body, no offence but the older generation have completely different views on things that are common place and acceptable these days. If your not happy with your body and there’s a safe means to do something about it then why not? X

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