Cannot believe how much I'm dreading work

I’ve been off a month & getting myself all worked up at how tomorrow is going to go, I work with a load of girls & women so I’m worrying if I’m going to fit back in okay & manage to do duties I used to without “letting the team down” I’ve only been there 6 months 🙁 hope I don’t overdo it with too many massages & waste £6000! Just feeling really negative as this is such an emotional journey wanted to vent my concerns on here sorry ladies xx

You will be fine Hun. Iv been worried I won’t be able to keep up with everything on my own latly but iv managed .xx

Heu hun 🙂
dont you worry about a thing you dont have to tell anyone what you have been off for and as for work you have obviously gone the right way about having time off and your entitled to that take your time on everything you do and remember youve had surgery dont push yourself just to impress !! youve already got the job 🙂 XXXXX

Hey hun, can u have a chat with your manager before hand and explain how you feel… I know your job is physically demanding, but you really need to know your limits too. Don’t feel you are letting anyone down, you have had a major surgery… And I’m sure you will fit right back into place the moment you walk through the door.
Now cheer up chicken… or ducky 😉 You are gonna do just fine Xx

Thank-you lovelies just over thinking things, I’m still struggling with day to day things so don’t wanna push myself too hard i blame the uplift, they know what I’ve had done but people won’t understand unless they’ve been in this situation, it means an awful lot to get on with colleagues as you spend so much time with them but just feel like I’m being judged already xx

Aw ducky bless your little heart! Don’t worry peach honestly! It’s definitely an emotional journey I hear you there! Just remember you have done a really brave thing getting this done, it’s all positive, you haven’t done anything bad! You may find people are more understanding than you think and if they’re not, screw em! I will hate them for you as you’re too nice ha. Let us know how it goes doll x

Aww thankyou poppet big hugs to you as I know you’ve been down lately & for being very supportive of me like the many other gorgeous ladies on this fab forum, love & positivity to all xxx

Thanks love 🙂 no problem, will be thinking of you tomorrow x

Good luck at work today ducky, hope u av a good day hun xx

Heya, hope works going ok. I can only iterate what others have said… You have had the courage so far and this is just the final hurdle which you can make 🙂
Good luck and if you do have any issues it’s for ONE reason… They’re jealous of your fab boobies 🙂 xx

Hope you got on OK today ducky x You deserve to be happy after what you’ve been through hun x

Awww wow thankyou beautiful ladies..wish I worked with all of you! I had an awful day spent most the day in tears as I was hardly spoken to, expected to work hard & found out what they all think I’ve been “bunking off” & “milking it”! When it’s just you against 7 others (2 on side) it’s bloody horrible but spoken to one of my bosses & a couple of the others, now need to tackle this issue with the rest of them tomorrow yaaay, staying positive as its just another stepping stone, this job will help me get a better one so need to put up I’m only contracted until may 😀 xx

Ahh babe… You are always going to have some tricky colleagues at work. You gotta hold your head up high, you know that you had your time off as part of your recovery and if they can’t deal with that the Screw them!! Like you say it’s a means to an end… You’re going places chic… tough it out and be the best you can 🙂 X

One word for them that are against you ducky…….JEALOUS! They’ll get over them selves eventually, just be the bigger person and stay positive like you said. Chin up doll, they’re nobodies x x x

Don’t let what ur colleagues think upset u! I know its easier said than done. I’ve had so many bits of “advice” and iv heard them all talking about me. I’m prepared to walk back into work after my 2 weeks off and stick 2 fingers up at them if they dare say anything. Its my body, I’m the one who’s unhappy with it and they can’t possibley understand how it feels. So as long as I come out of surgery with a smile on my face, I don’t care what they think about it. X

Aww 🙁 sorry to hear u had a bad day hun. Hope ur ok n things get sorted out with the jealous nobody’s 😉
Us lot are always here for a shoulder to cry on! Hope u av a better day tomoro xxx

Aw ducky petal. I was so hoping it would go well for you as well. But life is full of people who will do anything to make others unhappy. Usually because they’re not happy within themselves! It can only get better from now on and people who say you are ‘milking it’ are just judging you by their own standards. You know the truth and your health and happiness comes first. Fuck them! X

😀 aww come work with me please ladies need you in my life lol! Trying so hard not to be so sensitive guess I care too much, I’ve pretty much hit rock bottom today from getting so low as dramatic as that sounds, the only way is up now xxx

Aww Hun , they really ain’t worth a 2 nd thought!! Who are they to make u feel this way. U have bn so brave an this has bn a huge journey personally an emotionally for you. If only they would take the the to see that, I bet they wouldn’t have the balls to go though what u went through . They seem very shallow an small minded. U are so much stronger then u give yourself credit for !!you have bn to hell an bk Hun!!! I’m sure u can deal with a few idiots like ur work colleges. Big Hugs stay positive xxx

I agree with wot belle said 😉 xx

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