Can't believe my luck

So after making my boyfriend wait almost 6 weeks without any naughty business as I’m not taking my pill as I got told not to take r for 6 weeks and I’m very very cautious when it comes to this sorta stuff… we decided to use another form of protection for the first time in 6 weeks… then what happens, it bloody splits!!!! Just my luck and surprisingly he doesn’t give a shit. After being together over 2 years and something like this happens he seems to back away and hasn’t spoke to me all day apart from telling me I’ve p*ssed him off and to leave him alone.. seriously? any advice please. I know this isn’t boob related or cosmetic but I don’t know whether to just start my pill and not wait for the 6 week post op mark or what? !!!!! Got the emergency morning after pill but I can’t be doing with waiting another 3 weeks to take my pill again. I’m 3 weeks post op tomorrow. I’m an absolute wreck at the minute 🙁

ide take the morning after pill if I were you chic…you know u can go on the injection anytime btw im on it now as I cant remember a pill everyday, just a thought if u dont wanna wait x

6 weeks? I wasn’t told anything like this! I started taking mine a week after my op but to be honest wasnt given a time to wait. Just not to take it before the op. Im so sorry about your condom mishap. Your boyfriend, im sorry, sounds like an asshole. Seriously childish. You’d think after going out for 2 years he’d be there for you more. Perhaps call the out of hours nurse number to get peace of mind about starting to take your pill again? x

i took the morning after pill at about 1:30pm ish and i’m feeling absolutely terrible at the min! i struggle to take normal contraceptive pills cos of the side effects from them and this is such a high dose 🙁 my doctor told me i’m not to go on the injection or have anything other than a pill as i get such bad side effects from them 🙁 x

yeah i got told 6 weeks for some reason! i thought it was a little odd, but i thought i’d wait that long since thats what i’d been told to do 🙁 and i agree with you, he is acting so childish about it.. he’s a year younger than me, i’m 21 this year and hes only gonna be 20. i know its not a big age difference but boys mature alot slower than girls but you’d atleast think he’d be abit more mature about this as its quite serious… i’m not able to take my pill again anyway until i get my period, if i even get it! lets just hope this ECP works 🙁 x

Hi Hun you’ll be fine! I took my pill again 2 weeks after surgery. I was told by doc at work to still use condoms for two weeks cause it takes two weeks for pill to get back in to your system but I didn’t and I’m fine 🙂 as for your boyfriend he’s being a complete arse with you probs cause you made him wait! Make him wait some more now if he’s acting like that! Play him at his own game babe 🙂 hope your ok xx

hey, thats what i was thinking cos i’d never seen anyone say 6 weeks and i kept posting on here about it and wasn’t really getting much reply! thats lucky then, i just have really bad luck so knowing me i probably will be 🙁 yeah well he’s still not spoken to me, we had the argument last night and this morning he woke up for work and left without telling me or even waking me up to let me know which upset me abit then he’s still ignoring me, i don’t even know what to do now.. i gave in to make him happy and it’s all backfired on me 🙁 xx

Awww babe don’t let him get you down not worth it! He should be supportive and if he’s not being supportive over this what would he be like if it was serious and you were preggers! He would shit himself wouldn’t he! Tell him to grow a pair and grow up! Your boobs look amazing btw! Xx

i did say that and when i was sat crying about it (how embarrassing) he called me pathetic so i said i hated him and he only cares about himself.. probably half my fault he’s not talking to me haha but i was absolutely fuming at the fact he didn’t care one bit especially after like i said, i only did it to make him happy.. :/ and thanks hunny, so do yours!!! xx

He sounds such a selfish so and so like you say men don’t grow up until there about 40! Haha just let him sulk he will come running back and if he doesn’t you know he’s not the one babe your only young you can get anyone especially with your new puppy’s 🙂 don’t let him get you down he should be grateful after what you gave him! Xx

Hun, he sounds like a selfish asshole. Don’t spend any time feeling bad or blaming yourself, he needs a wake up call. You deserve better than that my lovely. You’ve been through a lot without having to pander to his immature strops. Jeez, boys!!x

You gave in to make him happy?! As in you had sex cos he was in a mood about not having it?
Hun that can be classed as emotional abuse, under NO circumstances should a person have sex with someone when they don’t want to.
Hope you are okay and he grows up and apologises! Xxxx

thanks girls. yeah, he kept saying hes waited all this long for me and all this stuff 🙁 so i felt bad and gave in then he was still in a mood after! can’t win, and now hes acting as if nothings happened, like he didn’t cause all this and didn’t ignore me for the rest of the night, whole of the next day and half of today!.. no apology, nothing! i don’t know what to do i really dont 🙁 xxxxx

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