Can't trust anyone feel so hurt and betrayed

Bit of a personal thing to post but I really am so upset this time last year me and my sister were going to get our boobs done together went to consultations the lot sister made out she did not have the money was the wrong time ECt. So it was put on the back burner. Only find out today she has had her boobs done for a year and is still lieing to me the other day I said your boobs look huge she told me it was chicken fillets and a good bra I feel so upset my full family have kept it from me no doubt all laughing at me and even to this date it wasn’t a family member that let it slip. Feeling really low

Why wud she keep it from u?

I know ita bound to be hard to take it but at the end of the day sweetie, you’ve got your amazing new boobs now. SO what if your sisters had hers donea year. She probs is jealous because the limelight isnt on her anymore. It’s out of order that your family lied and if it was me id deffinatly have something to say to them. But don’t hold grudges babes, lifes too short. Youve gone through the process and life changing experience now enjoy it and show your new assets off in full glory! Keep smiling x

Exactly honestly I have cried all morning worst of all she made me feel bad about getting it done and even now she hasn’t mentioned anything I feel like such an idiot I really don’t know why she would be so horrible I thought we were close. Evidently not x

I don’t understand why she would keep it from you, doesn’t make sense considering you were going to get them done together. At least you have your lovely babies now and yours are younger 😉 chin up hun xx

Very upset girls she had so many opportunities to tell me I would of been happy for her I confronted my mum who said u weren’t talking at the time which was conveniently true seen as though she was being sly and getting them done without me used my x as an excuse to not Tlk to me so she didn’t have to say anything. But she could of said something now but even a few days ago she lied I just feel really hurt. She really put a downer on it about how much it cost and will I have the money for the upkeep and so on, she going to continue to lie I’m now just a paranoid mess thinking what else is going on that they all don’t think to tell me always punished for one mistake I made in my life

Sorry for moaning girls just really hurt x

This is so sad to hear but you stay strong Rosé. Show them that you can carry on with your life happy and proud. Do not blame or punish yourself. Keep your head held high Mrs you have your new boobs so strut ye stuff and look after number 1.

Thanks so much for being so kind; I will never trust any of them again out of principle. You know it’s messed up when complete strangers are more caring and trustworthy than your own family xx

Everyone likes to vent sometimes, better out than in. Everyone makes mistakes, but without them how would we learn or be who we are today? I find the best way to get back at the people who have hurt you, is to be happy. Stay strong hun. We’re always here xx

Aww bless u babe. Ur family should of never lied 2 u!! Sounds like she’s wanted to do it on her own. So she could get all the attention!! I don’t know her so I’m only assuming. That’s what i would think if it was my sister!! Have a glass of wine with her & find out why she felt the need 2 lie about it. Xx

Honest if she was a friend I would never talk to her again. I don’t even want to give her the satisfaction of knowing I know. Little things are all making me realise how sly she has been like when I gave her a spray tan but she kept a top on rolled up. I don’t know if I’m more angry or upset xx

I would be seething!! Its just the slyness!! Wonder why she never said anything! Especially after use made up then she could of just said we weren’t talking!! Unless she didn’t wanna make u feel bad but then again uv got urs done now so u would think she would of said something. & use could of compared ur experiances etc. How did u find out? Xx

Thing is I’ve looked through all my txts and we didn’t even stop talking she just lied to my nan and said we had to try justify it I done her hair extensions a month later. Someone to do with her slipped up now my mum and dad are being arsey with me because I clearly don’t want to Tlk to them, they have all really upset me cnt trust any of them xx

Nobody can blame u 4 feeling like that tho, theyv betrayed u!! Aww i hope u sort it all out soon. Hope ur feeling better today 2!! Xx

Luckily I feel better in myself because I swear I would rather tear my incisions them let either of them help me I’m just doing everything myself saw but I’m too hurt to even let my anger dwn with them how they can turn it bk on me is beyond me I just feel such a mug xx

Unfortunately you cant chose your family:( best thing is keep it civil and your private life-private… The less they’d know the better. Unless you live together, which is different of course. Don’t beat yourself up, honestly, you did nothing wrong and what you feel is absolutely normal. I would have done the same if i were you. Just be careful and recover well.. Save your battles for someone else, you cant change them and they obviously don’t think that was wrong.. Unless your parents were fed some lies about you, which they believed. You may never know what has been said by your sister..just let it go, concentrate on something positive and move on..

I’ve really hurt myself getting myself a bath. Stupid I know thanks for caring girls xx

Well bit of a lesson learnt to any pre op girls if you have a day where you feel you can do things for yourself don’t over do it I’m in agony today didn’t sleep all last night will not be spiting myself like last night clearly need to find someone else to look after me xx

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