did you talk with your child(if you have one) before your BA?

I told my girl i am going for my BA.she was’nt happy .she said you don’t need.you look good without big boobs.:)and now seeing it hurts she says i tld you dont do that.but came to me next day after my op with flowers.sweet.:)

Ahhh she sounds like a little sweetie, how old is she?
I have a 7 year old boy and a 4.5 yr old girl, I told them mummy needs to fix her boobies as they are hurting my back and not the same size, the doctor is magic, fixes them up so they don’t hurt after they’ve healed and mummy will be much happier. They came to the hospital after I had my op as I stayed overnight (i had uplift with implants) they were eager to see my new boobies lol and everytime they see me looking in the mirror at them they want to have a nosey its quite funny! My kids are not gonna grow up not knowing what a woman’s body looks like that’s for sure lol! I think if you tell them its not scary and its nothing to be worried about then they’ll just go with the flow. My kids are pretty easy going anyway, they have probably told all their teachers “my mummys in hospital having her boobies fixed” as well haha!

Awww that’s so sweet. I didn’t tell my little boy until the day after when I was still in hospital. I rang home and told him where I was and why. He laughed at me the monkey! He’s only 6 bless him. He’s been very lovely since I got home though x

I also think you have to tell them something otherwise those big cuddles they love to give could really hurt then they’d feel bad for hurting you. My kids were soooo gentle, I’m not joking they have been brilliant, I’m do proud of them and love how well they’ve coped with me being out of action for a few weeks, my hubby has been such a good help, I couldn’t have got through it on my own. Sorry going off on one there :-s lol!

my girl is 8. and she is gentle with me too.helps me with anything.open doors for me.helped me to get up of seat when i had struggle.:)kids always cares about their mums.always happy to help.i love my girl.xx

Arhh thats sweet girls xx I have 2 boys 7 and 11 i made the decision not to tell them !!! only reason was I didn’t want them telling my dad !! yep you read that right lol I am 38 and he would have gone mad…. crazy i know but just couldnt be arsed with the ear bashing. Tho have to laugh the 7 year old saw them straight away and said WOOAHH mum your boobies are huge !!! i told him i wore a magic bra that made them grow ….lame i know but he hasn’t bothered to mention them again and the 11 year old would think seeing his mum naked is just the most disgusting thing everrr ha ha but if he ever does catch such a scary site i will tell him the truth 🙂 but don’t tell grandad 😉 arhh happy days girls xxx

I have 2 children girl aged 6 and boy aged 12, I told them I was getting my tummy fixed never mentioned my boobs at all. I didn’t want them thinking cosmetic surgery was ok, that may sound very pot kettle but I would support them if they decided they wanted any type of cosmetic surgery when they were older just didn’t want to plant the seed n let them think mums had it so I must. If they can be happy with theirs bodies then that’s the perfect outcome but whatever I would always support them just don’t want them to think its something every one does cos mum did it!

I have a 3 year old little boy who doesn’t miss a trick, I’ve no idea what to tell him! X

its easier to tell your kids then your parents.i dont know how i will tell my mum and dad.they will be paniking.my mum still telling me off for tatoos i got earlier.:-O.i dont know.the good thing is i dont see them often.so next time i meet them will be in few years.as the live abroad.i mean they live in latvia.but i am foreign here.so dont know .will tel them about magig bra too i think.lol.

Hi girls your storys are so sweet. I dont have kids but i was worried about telling my mum. Told her as went mad as im only 21 but within a week she was helping me choose a size lol xx

Morse you have a great mum.who knows maybe my mum would do the same.but i am just so worried.

If I didn’t have to tell my parents I wouldn’t have, my mother was still begging me not to do it on the morning of the op! I didn’t bother telling my dad until after.
If I didn’t see my parents often I wouldn’t have told them!
Before I always wore padded bras do they would have never noticed xxxx

i will not tell them then.as they will be worrying about me.will be better if i say them in few years when i meet them again.if they notice.will say i did my boobs ages ago.xx

I told my kids my Lil boy is 9 and my Lil girl is 6 next month I was honest with them about we’re I was goin while they stayed at grandmas and that wen I come back you wil have to be very careful with mummy because she will be sore when my mum brought them home on the sun nite my lol boy was so gentle but my lil girl wouldn’t touch me in case she hurt me she broke down in tears bless her so I talked to her because she’s such a mummy’s girl hates been away from me then when she finally had cuddles she was fine they have both been my lil stars helping me and been so good I’m so proud of them both and my husband has been fantastic my Lil girl thinks she’s my nurse has to check my scars everyday for me even though I’m 8 weeks po on sat that’s her job lol my Lil boy was curious of them he said do they feel weird but he’s not bothered now because I’m back to normal he’s forgot I had them done lol xxxx

great stories.kids are very understanding.little mummy’s helpers.xxx

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